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I'm asking pretty much 3 questions at the same time but I really am lost.

I've ordered 3 sports bras from ASOS. I plan on returning the third one because it's too small even though they're all size S (36-38).

The other 2 look like they fit me (no obnoxious spillage anywhere), but the bras do feel tight. So I wonder, should I size up if these bras fit me but at the same time feel tighter? How should a proper working sports bra fit? I have bigger boobs so they're squished to my chest but as I said, they don't really spill out.

It's really a pain to get them off though.

I worry that size M (40-42) will be too big for me, 42 is definitely too big. I'm like 38-40 in chest size.

Does a sports bra loosen up or not? Is a slightly looser bra better than a tighter one?

I do plan on losing weight anyway...

27F, it’s odd and just unlucky considering most women don’t have to bat an eye when it comes to dating. I’ve been on and off the apps for years, I’ve recently come to point where I just put minimal effort. Minimal as in sending a message 2-3 days max and swiping on profiles maybe every other week. I’ve spent so much time asking myself what’s wrong with me, even lost and maintained my weight loss over the years and can’t attract a guy I’d want. I get attention and likes but it’s the unrequited/only want hookups/they like me I don’t like them situation. I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with me, I have a low sex drive but that’s more common for women vs men. I find it odd that I couldn’t attract a decent guy where it’s reciprocated and the rest falls into place. Dating apps were my only outlet, I don’t have friends. Atm I’m on hinge, which I’ve heard is one of the better apps. My mom tells me I just haven’t found the right one and maybe that’s the case but can’t help but wonder if there’s more to it? Maybe not