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Ok I'ma describe him:

He never had much growing up as a child. His dad and mum were pretty simple minded? And his dad suffered from mental health issues. His dad was also quite an angry man from what I've heard, although he did love his family.

When he was 17, he dated a girl who was... wild. She cheated recklessly on him, became addicted to drugs and also had mental health issues, which he often had to deal with. In the end, that girl slept with someone else, left him, then got pregnant to some other guy shortly afterwards. He was pretty messed up about that.

Since the age of 17-30 he's had 15 sexual partners and was cheated on... multiple times. Some of the partners were one night stands.

At the age of 26, his dad died suddenly of a heart attack and he was left feeling absolutely devastated with a lot of regrets. About 6 months later, his mum who had been suffering from cancer, died too. So he was left alone with his brother and sister. His brother has severe mental health issues and has been suicidal before. He lives with his brother to this day, and his brother is very difficult to be around.

His sister then married a drug addict and gave birth to a disabled baby not long after.

And then? I met him. He took a liking to me because I 'wasn't like the other girls'. Things went ok. He could always connect physically with me? Tell me he loved my body, or that I had great boobs and looked sexy etc.

But trying to draw out any emotions was... so difficult. He never wanted to have deep emotional conversations. He could never apologise when he was wrong, his moods would swing constantly, he never seemed to pick up on my feelings and everything just felt so emotionally shallow.

He claimed to love me and all, but I could never truly love him because he seemed so emotionally dead at times. Of course, things turned bitter, didn't they? And he ended up getting really angry with me, so we split.

Today, he's still resentful towards me. And any kind of emotion he once had is... completely gone. Yeah, he'll still flirt and all, I sometimes wonder why that's the only way he will communicate with me.

I'm still a virgin and all, so we never had sex.

So, do you think he sounds damaged? Please tell me I'm not the only one.

My guy has two women that want him, they are both from his past and both want to be with him. He's told them he's in a relationship yet they both continue to flirt with him and one even tried to lay a guilt trip on him about not talking to her since we got together. When it comes up (and it does frequently) I get anxious and it always starts a long discussion about how insecure I am and how I don't have anything to worry about and always makes remarks about how I talk to people of the opposite sex. The difference is, and I have stated, none of them have said they want to have my baby or that they love me and don't want my boyfriend to tell me they are talking to him.. He says that they both make him uncomfortable but they are both old friends he doesn't want to lose. He does have a big heart and thinks of the latter one as a baby sister that he used to watch over, he'd tried to have a relationship with her in the past but she chose someone else.

I'm so frustrated! the first woman aborted his child without even telling him she was pregnant over 10 years ago and the other one is married with kids yet texted him last night and said it upset her that he let me read her texts. I'm too old to be getting jealous over these women but I still feel it come over me, I don't think he handles them properly at all and he won't take my advice on what to say but instead insists on handling things his way. I feel like he is encouraging them but he doesn't and says I don't know them like he does. I love him and we are committed to each other, I know I have nothing to worry about with him. He's never cheated on anyone and is extremely loyal. I just find it HIGHLY disrespectful that these ladies won't get it through their head what is appropriate and what is not and moreso with him for putting me in this position in the first place by not being more clear with them. Should I just let it go or should I dig my heels in? I'm scared of pushing him away but this is an ongoing issue I don't know if I can really deal with much longer without getting in a major argument and ultimatums being made, which he has stated several times he wouldn't tolerate from me.