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I’m a conservative and I really do not want Trump vs Biden again. No. Hell no. I want DeSantis because I think he will make a far better president when it comes to policy.

But Trump is crushing it in the primary polls right now. His core base sees voting for him as ”getting revenge” on leftists. They see it as fighting back at the corrupt system.

In a way I share their anger. But what matters more to me is 1) policy 2) long term results (Trump can only serve 4 years). Also I groan at the possibility of having to deal with liberals acting deranged over Trump again and the whole circus that comes with it. The problem is Trump actually loved negative attention. He invites and says/does stupid and unnecessary things just he loves the added attention. I just don’t want to see that again.

If you don't love me for who I am then I will leave you and become better? lol Make it make sense.

A lot of people don’t believe in Karma. I myself have gotten more doubtful over years. There is a zero sum aspect to this world that is unfortunately true. Sometimes you have to step on heads to get ahead. You may or may not have a conscience. If you do have one maybe you have to contend with a guilty conscience. But that seems like a minor price to pay for a lot people given the benefits they can get for their actions.

Anyway I notice people who burn the other gender often make bs excuses for actions because they themselves have been burned in the past. It’s a bullshit excuse because the reality you have with is with that one person and it’s just between you and them. You are not “getting back” at the man or woman who burned you by mistreating an unrelated man or woman. You are not getting your “revenge” You are just harming a person who doesn’t deserve it.

I often blame women for this adolescent behavior. But when I’m brutally honest with myself I confess there have been a few isolated incidents I have done this in my own life. It was particularly during my man whore phase in my late 20s/early 30s. I was never a liar. But I would play dumb with women who I knew wanted a relationship when I just wanted to get laid. I felt some mild guilt about it and but I buried that by remembering how many women burned me for being a “nice” guy in my early 20s. I figured it was “my turn” to enjoy the one way benefits.

But that was wrong. Bottom line is this is really just contributing to a “dog eat dog” shitty cycle that’s making things worse and worse for men and women. We look at scoring one for “our team”. In reality when you screw over someone else in dating they might screw over someone else at some point. There is more distrust. More hate. More selfishness. More toxic femininity. More toxic masculinity.

But Mother Nature meant to bound men and women together for companionship and reproduction. It’s NOT a “my team vs. your team”. It’s supposed to be two halves to a whole.