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I used to have a stranger crush on a guy from college and the feeling was Mutual (according to his friends) but we never talked and he seemed very reserved around me and never made any moves.

Now years later he met another girl in college he works with in a group and he was very flirty and confident around her from the very beginning, he acts very touchy feely with her, leans in, acts cutesy and started dressing better.

Why did he never try to impress me or talk to me like that If he was crushing on me too? Does he find her more attractive? Or is it because he has established rapport with her but not with me? Or because she is more outgoing and talkative?

Im asking because one guy did that to me however he acts very differently around other crushes by trying to impress them, looking good for them when he never did that for me.

So my crush said a flirty joke to me (I don't know if it was a joke or not) but then he quickly deleted it and said JK. i said bru (was probably a mistake on my part) and he replied to it by saying I WAS JKING LMAO ITS CALLED RIZZ. he changed the topic about him impressing half of his classmates with his rizz and stuff, but basically he changed the topic. when i later scrolled back, he had also deleted the JK messages. what does this mean? also take into consideration that he is 14 and im also 14 and he isn't a very clever person nor is he the type who has deep meanings in his stuff (probably). what does all of this mean? does he like me or not? he also asked who i was talking to because i took a little extra time to respond to him cause i was drinking water. i also noticed that in the middle of our convos he goes offline for a while and later comes back only and then starts replying like nothing happened. if he would have a crush on me, he wouldn't do that right? and again he isn't very clever so i dont think he would do it to make me more attracted to him or yeah.