I used to be invisible but now wherever I go I notice several men check me out or stare at me secretly even though I gained weight and I don’t dress to impress and overall just don’t look as good as a few years ago. My former crush who rejected me 2 years ago is not interested in me and acts super shy. When I see pictures of myself taken by others I want to cry because I look horrible so why do I suddenly get noticed? Did anyone have similar experience?
Why do men suddenly notice me in public even though I look worse than before?
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I don’t know why people are suddenly checking you out but if your crush is acting super shy around you it might mean he likes you
It's likely your persona, mojo and attitude that's compelling men to fall at your feet;)
You must be dressing nicer than before.
Yeah maybe but do men really care that much about that?
Sure we do.
Even if her face is not attractive?
Why do you say that?
You need to work on your self confidence.
Because they never paid me attention before and my college crush suddenly stopped looking at me
People change.
Yeah but why do suddenly? He was crushing on me for years
Ask him?
„Hey why don’t you check me out anymore?“
Perfect.
We have never talked in person