He sent a flirty message then said jk and deleted it. what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

So my crush said that relationships start by asking people their favourite color because his classmate had a crush on this girl in his class and his classmate asked the girl that question. my crush asked me the question as a joke (I don't know if it was a joke or not) and then quickly deleted it and said JK. i said bru (was probably a mistake on my part) and he replied to it by saying I WAS JKING LMAO ITS CALLED RIZZ. he changed the topic about him impressing half of his classmates with his rizz and stuff, but basically he changed the topic. when i later scrolled back, he had also deleted the JK messages. what does this mean? also take into consideration that he is 14 and im also 14 and he isn't a very clever person nor is he the type who has deep meanings in his stuff (probably). what does all of this mean? does he like me or not? he also asked who i was talking to because i took a little extra time to respond to him cause i was drinking water. i also noticed that in the middle of our convos he goes offline for a while and later comes back only and then starts replying like nothing happened. if he would have a crush on me, he wouldn't do that right? and again he isn't very clever so i dont think he would do it to make me more attracted to him or yeah.

[Alli39]

Could be that he lowkey tried to make a move and then got embarrassed, but it could just as easily be that he was trying to make a joke and then realized you might misinterpret it as flirting and didn't want that so he backtracked. No idea which.

[Asker]

what about the other "signs" i said. do they have any meaning?

[Alli39]

You mean taking breaks from your conversations? No. He might just have other stuff going on or not be great at maintaining continuous text conversations. I have no real way of reading this without knowing him.

[Asker]

well he is i guess someone who is goofy and humourous. i dont think he takes things seriously. he also shares stuff about his personal life only with me from what i know. only thing that kinda me weirded was why he cared about who i was talking to other than him. but yeah he funny enough had 2 dreams where i was in it but of course it doesn't mean romantically

[Alli39]

Hun, just ask him how he feels or tell him how you feel. It seems entirely plausible that he likes you, but frankly the psychology of a 14 year old boy is beyond me.

[Asker]

okay! thank you for the advice!

[Alli39]

Good luck and I really do hope he reciprocates!

[MonMon1477]

Honestly, from my perspective, he sounds like he's seeking attention. Boys are still pretty immature in middle/high school so don't think about it too much.

[Asker]

soo should i take it is a good, neutral, or bad sign?

[MonMon1477]

Neutral, boys will play with anyone they can

[Asker]

I see. I don't think that is the type of person he is. His 1st ex girlfriend cheated in him and his secind just ghosted him. I could be very wrong though

[MonMon1477]

Ahh maybe! If you're confrontational, you should ask him if he actually likes you (face to face). No matter the answer, look at his facial expression and body language then I'm sure you'll know!

[Asker]

I want to wait for a while because he broke up receny but yeah after a month, i think i will. He doesn't seem too sad about his breakup but ill still wait a month. Hopefully it goes well, wish me luck! And thanks for the advice!

[SnowedIn]

It means he's immature and not ready to date or interact with girls.

And underline everything that @Alli39 said. She's exactly right.

[Asker]

so should i ket him be and stop talking to him?

[Asker]

let*

[SnowedIn]

Not necessarily stop talking to him. Especially if he's a nice guy. Never give up nice people. I'm just saying he's immature and I wouldn't advise a relationship with that level of immaturity.

[Asker]

okay will take that into account, thanks!

[SnowedIn]

You're welcome! Best wishes with it.

[Iron_Man]

How was that flirting asking about the favorite color

[Asker]

just ignore it that was a placeholder question alr i dont want anyone to know the actual thing he said XD

[Iron_Man]

Ohhhh

[Nikki1989]

Kids your age are dying for attention. That is probably all this is.

[Asker]

True. Time to move on from him

[In_Trance]

He doesn't know what he's doing

[Asker]

Honestly i agree