Search Results: looks vs personality

Funny I just noticed that GAG autocorrect (or is it my iPhone) automatically capitalized “Democrats” but not “republicans” in the poll title. I’m sure that’s just a coincidence right?

Anyway a blind man could see that the Biden administration’s policy has been an absolute incompetent catastrophe given what’s going on with inflation, Afganistán, the border, etc. Just look at his poll numbers. He’s got the vast support of the mass media and still his numbers are tumbling off a cliff. Trump on the other always had low approval numbers but that was more due to his self sabotaging personality vs. his actual policy which had the USA in excellent shape.

So what aren’t large swaths of Republicans acting deranged over Biden? What I mean is why aren’t we going round screaming at people, continually rioting, cutting off friends and family , ostracizing or even canceling coworkers and colleagues? Sure there was the one isolated very ugly and stupid Jan 6th incident (which almost all moderate conservatives felt disgusted with). But why aren’t we acting like we have psychosis at the mere mention of the word “Biden”

I actually know why. We are grown adults.

They all have equally great personalities. Everything is actually equal except their height and looks. You'll have to sacrifice height for looks or looks for height.

When I say looks, I am referring to the face. You can imagine which body shape you want as long as it's equal across the board.

Both personal attributes have both genetic and environmental impacts. Also looks will inevitably fade with age. However there are still some very attractive older people (Jennifer Anniston & Brad Pitt defied Father Time for a long time).

But would it be tougher for a woman who is 50lbs overweight to get fit & lean? Or is it tougher for a naturally introverted and shy man to learn to be outgoing, funny and confident?

Obvious that is stereotyped for what is most attractive for each gender. Women can always improve their personalities and men can improve their physiques to be more attractive.

But in my bias opinion personality is tougher to change. Because it’s not a hard science like physical fitness. Obvious physical fitness is impacted by genetics, age and engrained eating habits. But any determined man or woman can make major improvements with changes in diet and hard exercise.

Personality change requires constant attention of your thought patterns, quick thinking responses to people, eye contact, verbal timing, tone of voice. Also your very appearance (young/old, high/low voice tone, gender, physique) in itself can impact how your personality comes across. It also requires psychological bravery/judgment on whether you need a confrontation vs. resisting saying/doing something stupid.
in my opinion personality it tougher to change. Certain occupations (military), sports and activities (theatre/improv) can influence it. But it pretty much set early in life and impacted genetically.