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I think a lot of us modern men under 40 become disillusioned with women, and frankly, get fed up with their stupid sh*t, nagging, and selfishness. In our teens and twenties, we often imagine women being kind, supporting, sweet, always there and by your side, pure bliss in the bedroom, and sticking by you, no matter what.

But by the time you reach your thirties, or maybe even before that, you come to the realization that women are just people, and most people are assholes who only care about themselves and will quickly throw you under the bus to save their own asses. But unlike men, women are never held accountable for anything, so get to continue being selfish assholes without consequence.

This is why even in 2022, a man is only seen as being as valuable as his resources. It's never about personality. Aside from cockiness and ego, that is; literally the only "personality trait" that matters with (most) women. Aside from that, you're only as good to a woman as what material possessions you can provide to her.

This isn't to say I hate women. I hate humanity in general! Men and women equally! But do any of you other men ever come to the realization that what you always thought of women, relationships, love, female companionship, etc, to be, was actually just an illusion and that in reality, most women are just a giant pain in the ass and occasional sexual release every now and then? Essentially, love isn't real.

I dunno; I just kinda need to vent today. People suck and I'm fed up pretending like they don't.

So happy I'm in therapy. I've only been on here about... An hour. Y'all have some deep insecurities and twisted fantasies about relationships. Which is fine. I have mine too. But it's consistently the same problem most of you are dealing with that annoys me. The need for validation and reciprocation from blatantly obvious toxic people, or how to handle childish behavior or borderline sexual harassment. Starting to realize that by staying out of deep relationships has left me able to focus on myself a lot more to now be able to understand what boundaries and communication truly means. I've had so many meaningless relationships and ruined deeply good friendships that now I'm able to look back and learn from my mistakes. Ask yourself, what is it that you truly seek the most in someone else or rather what you want to give and then you'll start to understand what type of relationship you need to build. What is it that you want/give in a (monogamous) relationship?