What do you think about women or men who sleep with married people on purpose, and even get off/get turned on by it? Do you think they are bad people?Of course, it's always on the person in the relationship not to cheat on their partner, but surely both parties are in the wrong if the home wrecker knows the man/woman is married. or has children and is married?
Woman sleeps with married men and gets an "adrenaline rush" from getting their wives to cheat with her. She's looking for a boyfriend "but only if he's married." She says "It turns me on that they're bored by their wives but want me." She says "Married men are looking to fill a void that they aren't getting from their current partner and that is such a turn-on for me. I love the idea that I’m their sexual fantasy and get to be the ultimate mistress to them – give them everything they want."
What do you think about homewreckers who do it on purpose?
It’s not something to be proud of that’s for certain. Yes , giving an opportunity to bring someone in the home is wrong AKA the spouse who seeks intimacy outside of the marriage is the gatekeeper. So by default, I blame the gatekeeper first then I blame the person who knew they were engaging in something immoral and chose to continue.
I blame all parties involved for breaking the rules of relationship but the punishment should be more on the gatekeeper because if it wasn’t for them, nothing would of happened
I think they're horrible but the ultimate responsibility for fidelity still rests on the one in the relationship. Being faced with greater temptations doesn't excuse immoral acts of betrayal as I see it.
Still, the homewrecker types obviously don't respect things like marriage and LTRs. So I think they're still horrible people, but not responsible for the cheating.
Exactly. And some people go a step further and get "turned on" by it and actively seek out married men because I guess they want to feel like they are better than their wives. It's so messed up
I see them like parasites in my blunt opinion. "Get your own man/woman!" :-D But I don't agree with mentalities like, "I trust you, I just don't trust him/her with you." Unless we're talking about a rapist I think the ultimate responsibility still rests on those in the relationship. But I do think homewreckers are scum. They're just so annoying.
I think they're horrible people. People who do this and seek them out are, in my opinion, very insecure. They are so scared of getting in a relationship and being cheated on, that they want to be on the offensive side instead and help someone to cheat. It gives them a sense of power over people of their own gender. I would say people like this are just pathetic.
No one outside of a relationship can wreck one's relationship unless one or both in the relationship are not committed or have weak minds. The belief that homewreckers do so intentionally takes the responsibility off the guilty party engaging in the affair (s).
Temptations will always be there, but I hold to my point that no one can break a relationship unless one or both parties in a relationships are letting external factors in. If someone says they get cookies on the side to keep the relationship healthy, that's that someone's responsibility. This includes mother in laws, whole families, friends, etc, can wreck a relationship, but it's up to you and your partner to protect your relationship which you are responsible for... no one else is.
I'll give you an example. At least 3-4 times in recent years, did I meet men who presented themselves as single or as if they were single parents, co-parenting, etc. I began liking these guys as we flirted, got along, they asked for my number, some got more intimate... tension was felt a great deal. Turns out each was still in relationship including marriage. I engaged as they refrained provision of current info when I'd ask. Was I homewrecking or were they deceptive and withholding information? One even had a 10 week old baby he was co-parenting, but supposedly not together with the mother, this guy liked me a lot despite it all. It's up to the man who is in a relationship to make things clear.
oh, i hate them so much, we need to put anyone to death who sleeps around with someone else that is not their wife or husband. we do not need those kinds of people living around wits us normal folk
