I know comparison isn't good but would you agree this is the difference between a lying future faker vs a serious man:
What my ex boyfriend would do:
- Send me nonstoppable texts on my messenger about love songs and eternal love such as ''Your world is my world''
- Lovebombed me and there was too much ''I love you'' exchanges
- Made me really think we were soulmates
- Called me ''my beautiful wife'' and made me think I'm part of his family
- Too much sexual conversations in the beginning, too much passionate love, and fantasy
- At some point we rarely spend time outside the house and he would leave after only an hour of visiting me
- Promised me marriage and kids in the beginning, only to them tell me later on that it's just a piece of paper and make excuses
What my current boyfriend is doing:
- Informing me the updates about his progress in his apartments and wanting things done soon.
- Our conversation include about our jobs, our goals, daily routines, no sexual conversations
- We actually spend quality time over just staying at home; our dates are spent outside about 90-95% of the times. If we spend time at home it includes watching a movie and setting up plans for next week or having dinner.
- There is no ''You're the love of my life'' bs lovebombing. It's rather ''Honey thank you for the invitation, get home safely'' or ''Honey how was work today, how is your family doing''? We only said I love you once or twice in many months and don't need to repeat it too much.
- He has searched about the cost of marriage and wedding preparations. He said he'll talk more about it once his finishes renting his apartment. He calculated the apartment will be ready by Nov.
- There is positive feedback from my family and friends. They hated my ex boyfriend but they like my current boyfriend and see him as a serious guy.
- He's not into drinking heavy liquors nor clubbing. He invited to his friend's b-day and we only drank one small glass of whisky at a slow pace.
