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Women, how do you feel about shy guys with very masculine bodies?

I am a reserved guy who's humble and well meaning. I've never thought of myself especially highly, and I always noticed I was a bit different. Over the past three years I started to get a lot of attention in public; women...
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I am a reserved guy who's humble and well meaning. I've never thought of myself especially highly, and I always noticed I was a bit different. Over the past three years I started to Show More
Encouraging: Safe to approach directly
Attractive: Comfortable to orbit around
Confusing: I thought he'd be a player
Upsetting: Why isn't he approaching me!
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Why do Americans say “can I have” instead of “please may I have” and rarely say thank you?

I've been America 4 times and travelled mainly places such as new york , florida Orlando, Boston, north conway, cape cod, bar harbor. One thing I've found really strange is when you guys order food you'll say "can I...
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Women, would my autistic inflatable comfort habit be a dating dealbreaker?

Hey, I wanted to ask this honestly. I’m in my 20s, autistic, 6ft and I’m a former professional combat sports athlete. I’m a good earner and I’m well off. I’ve had girlfriends before, but I never opened up to any of them...
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When men look at a woman they like, what’s really on their mind?

Do they think about being intimate, or is it more about how nice she looks, or fantasies about going on dates? I as a woman mostly look at a guy and think; ‘he’s cute;’ and good things I notice about his personality.
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Is it narcissistic or just weird to have a big photo of yourself on your car?

I was sitting in the Walmart parking lot when this car pulls up next to me. This guy with a fedora, sun glasses, and a fancy leather jacket gets out. I noticed there was a large photo of himself in his fedora looking off...
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Do women avoid dating men who have zero relationship experience?

I don't know mostly from my personal experience that women tended not to date or even a chance to guys who never dated or had a relationship. It might be just me 😅 but in my 27 years alive I never got a date, got...
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First meeting in person was awful. Why?

i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
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Is this strong intuition, pattern recognition, or just a good eye for people?

Over a year ago, I started bartending at this new hotel. One evening there were 3 men that came and sat pretty much in front of the area where I would make my drinks. I quickly noticed 2 of the 3 men. One was being...
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Is my affectionate male friend straight or secretly crushing on my bi best friend?

My male best friend is bisexual, and we have a mutual male friend from the improv community. This guy has more female friends than male friends. He talks to women naturally, but with men he seems unable to start a...
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Do goth, rocker, or emo girls ever go for a normal-looking guy?

So I'm the most normal, boring, vanilla looking man that you can think of. I do like the vibe and music that comes with that kind of women it just doesn't seem like I like those things because I don't wear anything that...
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Do you see yourself as cool and popular, or cool and a dork like me?

I consider myself cool and a dork , I am cool because I am pretty laid back and outgoing I pretty much get along with everyone and I have some kind of glow around me that draws people in. I am not judgmental, I might bust...
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Why are my cheating ex and his mistress so obsessed with blaming me?

My children father ( kids Ages 3 and 5) has been cheating on me with his mistress on and off since the beginning of our relationship. At first I didn't know but things started to come out. He would plan trips out of...
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Guys, Would you stress over what ring to get your girl?

A guy friend started asking questions about types of rings -- knowing the type of ring to get his girl... knowing whether to splurge on a real diamond or to get a lab-generated diamond... whether a girl would care which...
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Reasons why you chose to be single?

As someone with Asperger’s I know I can be off putting to men but at first I thought I have a chance until at the age of 21 I did research and what to expect in romantic relationships. Turns out I couldn’t sacrifice my...
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Why do Americans turn every life event into such a big, expensive production?

I moved to America around 2 years ago and something i really struggle to get a hold of as a brit is how formal everything is and but every life events needs to be this big expensive show. My next door neighbour...
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How far is too far when it comes to dating a nerd?

I've been seeing this guy for around 8 weeks and i was always aware he was abit of a nerd but it didn't bother me all that much and I thought it was kinda cute. he's a classical violinist and is very well educated...
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Why do we live in a time when women want no strings relationships?

I’m chatting with a girl the last couple days and she's incredibly beautiful but she seems to only be looking for a short term no strings situation. I’m the kind of guy where this type of thing scrambles my brain. Now...
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Does this guy from school actually like me or is he just teasing?

ok im really confused about this so im a highschooler and I've known this guy (we’ll call him S) and I've known him since middle school and he always used to tease me for 7th and 8th grade nonstop especially bc later on...
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1 mo

Why would a guy avoid talking TO me but constantly talk ABOUT me to others?

There's a guy (M49) who is very awkward about talking TO ME directly. He's always "too busy" or goes silent and then reads something I send him at 2-3am. Meanwhile he talks to EVERYONE about me... I'm awesome, blah blah....
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2 mo

Should I reply?

okay, so there's this boy. It's been one month since I've been going to a new school, and there's this boy in my class, and I've never actually seen him looking at me, and I never even noticed him until like two days ago....
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