Search Results: ways to approach guys at a gym

Why do some guys are trying to impress girls and try to test them to see if they are interested and when the girl is showing interest they step away?

There was this guy at the gym that I had a crush on ( he didn't have a girlfriend) and he seemed to be interested too but at some point his behavior was starting to getting odd. When I started going to the gym this guy...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl looks/stares at me when I don't look. Looks attracted to me, but she seems intimidated?

There is this girl in the gym every Sunday who looks/stares at me when I don't see her. Today I thought about chatting her up, but just asked her for how long she's going to use the machine she was using at that moment....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is joining the boxing gym a good way to meet guys?

I walk by this kickboxing gym every time I go home. I see guys punching bags through the window. The gym is literally 90% male. I've seen some pretty fit hot guys come outta there. I've always had a difficult time meeting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this a good way to talk to a guy? What would you think if someone said this to you?

I wanna talk to a guy at the gym that I've been crushing on. Im too scared to be upfront with him , but I do think he's also interested in me. I can't figure out how to approach him but I thought of one way that I need a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

[M20] How do I overcome my fear of approaching girls?

Hi everyone, i’m almost a 20 yo guy and i’ve only approached a girl once when i was 16. I generally feel not enough for dating a girl i like, especially if i don’t even know her. I have some serious issues regarding my...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, a girl at my college gym approached me and asked for my name. Is this, along with her previous behavior, signs of interest?

I’d noticed her before and found her attractive, but I don’t talk to anyone at the gym. I never saw her talking to anyone and always had headphones on. We had been making eye contact for a month now after seeing each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He flirts with me in the gym, but doesn’t text me. Why?

So I have this guy in the gym that I have a crush on. Sounds funny, but years ago when I first started going to this gym, he approached and texted me, but that time I wasn't so interested beacuse I had somebody that was...

Meago

Xper 3 Age: 28

I just don’t know what’s going on in his head?

Sorry in advance for how long this will be!! Just over a month ago a guy approached me on a night out and we’ve been seeing each other since. He’s really publicly affectionate and is in no way embarrassed to be seen...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I feel invisible next to my skinny white friends, how do I be more confident and let go of others opinions of me?

I am a 20 year old mixed (black/white) woman in a white town. I’ve always been used to being the only person of color next to my family. Since I was a kid I’ve always been the only black girl in my group of friends,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, does this girl like me. Opinion on given signals?

Hey, so I´m not new to the world of dating and gaming but I´m still not able to take the risk to approach a girl at my gym so I need some help to figure out if there is even a chance of approaching her working. There is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my gym crush interested or just being friendly?

Hi there. I started to go to a new gym last month. I always mind my business but this time this happened. I was trying to set up a machine but couldn't figure it out, so I asked this girl that was passing by and she kinda...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you believe there's people who really will be always single?

I am self-reflecting in myself. In about 1 month I'll be 30 and I never ever have had any type of romantic relationship. Yes, I can recall the wholesome elementary school guys who had crushes on me. The ones during high...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If I smile at a guy and he seemed shocked and does a double take but doesn’t smile back. Man’s POV?

i guess I can assume he’s unavailable.. I’m talking about gym crush from the other day / yestarday by the way because even if there was a risk that I wasn’t smiling at him you think he would’ve thought oh she smiled she’s...

anonbrunette99

Yoda Age: 27

Are you aware of how you come off to other people?

I used to be extremely self conscious, and as a result, aware of how others may perceive me. My anxiety was very high, confidence very low. Now it’s opposite. I’m extremely confident and not very anxious. I’m a very...

blissinanarchy1

Xper 7 Age: 27

How do I approach a guy?

I’m needing some advice on how to approach an attractive guy from my gym. I think he’s interested, I’ve caught him looking my way on multiple occasions, sometimes multiple times on the same day. But I’m out of practice...

Cluelesswpg

Xper 3 Age: 44

Girls, if you saw the guy you like with another girl, would you wait for him to approach you the next time you saw him? Or would you?

Saw the guy I like partner up with a girl in the fitness class at the gym. She was obviously trying to flirt with him. Saw him stare at me a few times during the class, but he didn't acknowledge me. Next time I saw him,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, How would you like to be approached if you're trying to attract a guy?

Now more than ever, this an answer we need. Many feel that making the first move nowadays is like stepping on eggshells barefoot, but for shy young men who want to make the best first impression... it's paralysing. The...

Anonymous

(25-29)