I need help to approach a girl?

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Hi!
I have recently switched gyms, because I needed some new environment. At the last gym, almost everybody knew me, here at the new gym, I’m kinda “the new guy”. And i like it this way actually, I like it that there is no distractions while training and that I can just focus on myself, I just feel like it right now,
Otherwise I’m enjoy talking at the gym. So there is this girl, that I see is 98,33% checking me out, but kinda lowkey, like from the side and the mirror, you just feel when somebody is looking at you, we made a few eye contacts and she looks nice, but it didn’t do that flirty look, just when I passed by or she was on my way. The thing is I don’t want to look her back in a flirty way, because when I do that it kinda just stays at the eye contact stuff, because I don’t know how to approach and when. As you can see I need help to get to approach her. I think she could be a little older than me, but thats not a problem. I would like to take her out for a walk or a drink, just to get to know her.

DoctorSex · Accepted Answer

You see my name?
There's a reason I'm called DoctorSex. Over a hundred women in. I ask a girl for her number, she gives it. If he has a boyfriend, she gives her insta. When I give advice, listen.

You see this girl you like? Let her go, you've already lost.

The battle starts way before hello, and you're already defeated because you are in two minds. Let her go, as a man you must be assured. It comes fr the spirit and it permeates through the ether and makes you irresistible. When you start second guessing, your masculine energy decreases.

Women are designed to pick up on masculine energy.
When I speak to a woman, even if it's just the bank teller, women looking at the interaction believe I'm flirting.. why?
Because I'm self assured. There is no second guessing when I speak to women and it comes across as flirting to them.
"Why is he so assured in himself!", This is very attractive to women.
So in short brother, the advice I give you is to forget her. You've already been defeated. Let this one go or it will be painful of you try to pursue it. The development of your spirit and character is most important brother.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

She may not be single, you know. You need to have some convos with her before you ask her out. You can start a convo about the gym, working out, stuff like that.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Since you’re new you could use that to your advantage. You can ask her some questions about the gym, ask her how she’s liking it there so far and if there are things that bother her,
etc or you can just approach her while she’s using a machine and pretend to work in together so you can start a convo with her.

GurlMaster40 · Accepted Answer

Dude, clearly you are very social based on your last gym, so go talk to her, spend a few weeks getting to know her then ask her out, also the getting to know her part will help you know if she is single or not. I hope this helps 🙂

Guy13 · Answer

Man-up and ash out. Longer you take more likely to say No

Iron_Man · Answer

Develop the courage be prepared to do what you have to do

Anonymous · Answer

Approach anytime. The longer you put it off, the harder it will be.

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