Search Results: how to change his mind

Do I just feel attraction or lust?

There is this one guy (same age) that I started liking out of the sudden, we shared the same sport. We talked he told me I was pretty and one thing I messed up is telling him I had an ED (i had only known him for one...

TheNameDoesntMatter

Xper 2 Age: 18

Guys, would you require a girlfriend to keep her haircut and weight to your standards during the relationship?

my current boyfriend makes subtle comments about that he loves my current weight and wouldn't be as in love with me if it changed keep in mind he wants to have babies with me in the future. He also says he likes my short...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can man change their mind when he says he only see you as a friend?

To all the guys, I really need your opinion on this and I hope I can get a good advice from all of you. I have been seeing this guy for almost a year now, the first 6 months I was asking him if we can pursue the...

novelll

Xper 4 Age: 29

Why did he say I was projecting?

Been talking to this guy on text (he is a friend's friend) who happens to live in another country while I live in his home country. We went on a date (which was the first time we met in person) when he came home during...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy act like this? Was he trying to flirt?

I had a weird encounter with a random stranger on the train and I am still trying to figure out what did it actually mean? I was travelling to a different part of the city where I don't usually go to as much. It was a...

oxoxo-lover

Xper 7 Age: 29

What would you do if the mother of your child wouldn't let your son travel to see you?

My partner and I live overseas. He has a son that lives in the US with his mom. Before moving abroad my partner asked his son if he was okay with him moving abroad and the kid was actually excited with the idea of...

sheikalana

Master Age: 37

Keeping rejections on social-media?

Hi! Got "rejected" from my crush after the second date. She did the classic: I don't know what I want, need to find myself. But she still wants to remain and hangout as friends. More or less "Be a nice guy and sit...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hi! Got "rejected" from my crush after the second date. She did the classic: I don't know what I want, need to find myself. But she still wants to remain and hangout as friends.

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Family & Friends

My mom is saying she won’t pay for my sister to go to college anymore. Is she wrong?

When I was 15 years old my mom started a savings for me to go to college but she kept having to dip into her savings for bills or emergency expenses because she was a single mother. By the time I actually graduated high...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls how does it feel when a guy says he has a crush on you?

lets say it’s a guy who you haven't dated but he is a familiar face. A college class mate for example. You know each other by face, maybe a bit of talking, and one day he tells you that he has a crush on you. 1. how would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How likely is it that a 30 year old/middle aged man who isn’t mature will never mature?

I was dating a man who is 33. I’m 25. I think I have maturing to do but it blows my mind that he would still have to “learn” things that even I at 25 feel I already know such as treating people with compassion, being...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is there a way to change a hookup to a relationship?

I hooked up very early with a guy I like, is there a way to change his mind to maybe becoming more than just a hookup now? Or did I screw up and its too late?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend was raised by permissive parents and also the only child and grandchild? Anyone here who can relate?

I am extremely frustrated with my boyfriend and after doing some research “permissive parenting” popped up a few times on google. His parents are so permissive that even today, they are still the same. My boyfriend can...

whatsgoingon1

Xper 5 Age: 38

Marriage & Weddings

What Else Do I Need To Do Since I Decided to Stop Talking to My Husband?

I am fed up with my husband especially after our most recent argument. I told him I was tired of him being immature at times and not mindful. I won’t lie, I’ve been getting annoyed by him as of late because of his antics....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Grandpa is no longer racist but still has issues?

I'm not talking about my own grandfather but my fiance's father. I'm 50% Belgian and 50% African. My fiance is 100% Belgian. His father used to be "openly" racist back in his younger days. When I first met him, as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can a man change his mind about being one and done? His reasons so far just seem like he's too lazy to raise another which I don't think its fair?

Anonymous

(25-29)

When my boyfriend worked he used to text me the first couple of months, work has got busier for him at the moment, is this normal?

Been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months now when we first started we used text on and off the first couple of months and now he can go 24 hours without contact, he works for an airline I have had a lot going on the last 15...

Emily1975

Xper 1 Age: 48

My ex called me and told me he feels sorry and feels like he owes me something, why?

I just finished audio call with my ex, he talked to me and said his mom told him I am depressed and he wanted to know how I am, he said deep in his heart he always thinks of me and feels sorry for what he has done, he...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Why do we love people we can never be with?

I think this may be a vent post lol. Long story short, we met each other and felt an instant connection. Since day one over 10 years ago my gut told me he’ll always be in my life. That first meeting was as if “he’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)