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I’m in a relationship for 4 years now. My boyfriend and I have some incompatibilities like different interests, sex drive, and financial stability. The things I want to do, he doesn’t want to do which is also one of the causes why I feel bored. Or maybe I’m just bored and grown out of this relationship. There's not much wrong with my relationship, but sometimes I don’t feel like I want to be in a relationship. I want to date more people and see if there’s better out there. Is there any advice on what I should do because he’s a good guy, we get along, we even have a good time sometimes. I want to break up but then I also don’t. I don’t know what I should do anymore.

So my boyfriend is having some work issues & today he made a comment if I can't wait 1-2 days for a response maybe I should walk away. He forgets I waited 2 months for him to get sorted earlier in the year - he's still not sorted out - with barely any communication from him.

See it's frustrating because he's trying to shoulder everything himself - though I am more than able to assist him (it's the way he grew up I think, his mum wasn't educated & dad died young so he had to "be an adult" before his time) - and because of this he's causing excessive strain to himself. Instead of asking for help or taking the help I am offering.

And today I made it clear I WANT to help you. And yet rethinking what he said earlier - about walk if can't wait 2 days for a response when I waited 2 months earlier - it's like would he actually appericate that help or would he just used it and when sort out leave / break up.

Or would it be better to just... walk away. I mean you can't force someone to accept your help and if they don't want it, what is there.