We’ve been really close for years now. Our relationship has always been strange. We started out intimate then went platonic of sorts. She has been in a relationship for 4+ years now and our friendship has stayed strong. Even became friends with her boyfriend. Over the 4 years we’ve gotten a bit too drunk and fooled around with each other. We kind of left it unspoken. It would just happen and we’d leave it at that. That went on for years until this new years when we were caught. I broke off all contact with both of them as I didn’t want to cause any more trouble. We didn’t speak for over 2 months. The longest time since we met in 2017. I had texted her the on a Monday apologizing for my actions. She responded on a Friday night saying “she just saw it” and we ended up speaking for hours. Her telling me that her boyfriend is useless and that all he does is play games and drink. And that she is trying to kick him out. And that she misses me and it’s been hard on her. Telling me she loves me (I’ve been hearing this from her for years and it’s always when she’s been drinking). Well after talking I thought we’d go back to talking everyday like before. But I haven’t heard a peep since. Now I love this woman. I don’t know in what facet. But I do. After speaking to someone everyday for year it’s hard no to. What should I do? Do I call her out on it next time she drinks and texts me? We both have good management jobs and work a lot of hours. So maybe she is just busy like I am? I just need help. I hate the prospect of loosing a important part of my life. But I don’t want to be a doormat. Any help or advice would be much appreciated!
My best friend (a girl) only texts me now when she’s drunk. Should I even bother anymore?
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