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What in tarnation is going on here? ?

To be as straightforward as possible essentially my boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago after he got into a light text fight with me because he didn't understand the context of something and we had already talked about it and I forgave him for his behavior, suddenly he ghosts me for like a week only to find out that in reality his mom who I already sort of knew was... A terrible person with a controlling factor... Basically said that he doesn't need to be in a relationship because it doesn't correspond with what she wants out of him, he talks to me later on and explains me he doesn't want to lose me but maybe we should take a break until he gets some stuff put together which we do however a now not friend anymore friend caught air of this and harassed the hell out of him because essentially how dare he do that to me or whatever, to the point that mine now X and got pretty angry about it and tells me that I'm sending people out to him and breaks up with me, then later on in the day calls me angry about him since he getting installed after I told his friend to leave him the hell alone and I talked with him about it we understood that it was something that was beyond our control and it caused me to basically have a panic attack and he called me down and he was telling me about how we should basically be friends with benefits until he gets his s*** straight like his words, and he's being hush hush about everything because he doesn't want his mom to hear us talking and what not..

Jump forward within the recent week is the fact that the said friend had caused a big conundrum to where the person's parents get involved and they think that it's me and my extension threatened me and the dude shows me and I told him again to leave me alone. It angered said X but he wasn't upset with me and we still talk even though essentially his mom threatened to send me the jail if we keep talking because it's absurd...

. At least he finally got in jobcore and has a job

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What the hell should we even do we're trying to get him out of the toxic environment, but it's definitely draining to deal with outside sources and it seems like he can't separate this shit bag and his mom's toxicity from his reaction.
I'm happy that he chooses to work on himself over having a relationship yet he still keeps me around making it semi clear that we still could get together in the future when things are better.
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But in the meantime it's absolutely emotionally draining dealing with this absurd stalker like friend who wenkeep hsveing to block, and it was already tasking during the relationship when his mom would cock block me doing anything nice for him.
He made it pretty clear that after she met me she is randomly assumed that was a criminal liar or something.. she has major mental health issues and abusive tendencies though so I look down on her at this point. She is a shit parent.
What in tarnation is going on here? ?
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