Search Results: turn offs for a guy

What to do when you have an avoidant and anxious dynamic with a guy?

I am actually a fearful avoidant woman. I just noticed it as my dating patterns are hardly existent. If I do like someone i usually prefer those who are not attainable. I am also not consistent and often disappear on...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

Are these Nike shorts a turn on or turn off on a guy opinions welcomed?

Anonymous

(30-35)

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What would you think as a guy if you saw this happen to your crush?

So I have to wear extensions for dance purposes for a specific aesthetic. My choice of style are tiny braids. During class, from what I could tell, though not really sure because I was focused on learning the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am conflicted what should I do?

I met a guy (call him M) 5 years ago on Yubo we both go same uni first year. I recently moved to the city and because of covid I couldn’t meet anyone. We both are studying engineering we also have mutual friends. It...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do Guys Care About Wide Shoulders?

I have pretty wide shoulders, but the rest of my body is toned and fit. I feel like they stand out like a sore thumb and Im wondering if I should embrace them or hide them. Turn on or turn off?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Why is it so hard for me to want to be with a good guy?

I got my heart broken and feelings hurt by a decent looking guy with a good job and financial stability.. what attracted me to him the most was his intelligence. I liked him so much just for him to be a jerk and treat me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this normal?

There's this guy who's just so natural and nice. Like, no matter how many times I randomly turn up to find him during work, he never seem/feel annoyed (I am pretty sensitive so I can pick up people's subtle feelings). He...

PolkaDottiers

Xper 4 Age: 38

Why would people flirt , gossip and try every ways to hurt someone s feeling in workplace?

i ve been working in this company for around a year. When i first got here there s a guy (i would call him A) in finance department, a manager, and the boss s brother. The other co workers would try persuading me to date...

Jojojojojojojo

Xper 6 Age: 28

Girls, is it wrong to pity someone who's getting over a breakup?

I didn't notice when she broke up with him, yet I noticed her being thoughtful or even a bit sad now and then, and a few weeks later she started to talk about her feelings regarding her breakup. I told her I'd know how...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Is not wanting to have sex in the first 2 months of a relationship a turn off for a guy?

Hey everyone I had a boyfriend we were together for like a month and a half We started good he would treat me great and take me to dates he brought up sex and I told him I'm a virgin he was happy He asked me if we should...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I get my friend to stop pressuring me to date?

I’m single and turned 40 this past winter. Throughout my 20’s and early 30’s I was I guess a bit eager to get into relationships and I kinda rushed them. I didn’t sleep with the guys, but it did result in me getting hurt....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Was I wrong for leaving when he was wasting ny time?

I started dating if u can call it that this guy in 2022 of October we hit things off he said he wasn't ready for a relationship but he was still a good person so I decided to still be friends with him. He met my friend...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My best friend becomes a straight asshole when he gets a girlfriend?

I’ve known my best friend for over a decade he is genuinely an amazing friend he is always there for me when I need him and he is the sweetest guy however he turns into a straight grade a asshole every time he gets a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

Hey guys , would you like to live in a wooden cabin , in the middle of the woods while it rains?

Okay just wondering , but would you like to live in the middle of the woods , while it rains & just in case there is an intruder you would have a door that leads to a room down stairs & would have something to keep you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I unable to get what I want from some men that are more interested in a short-term relationship, from online but while I met one guy in person?

Online dating hasn't gotten what I want from interested in getting into a long term relationship. I only met some men that some men that I didn't meet since they were taken and were lying about being single. The other two...

CaitlinSims25

Xper 5 Age: 27

The reason I'm attracted to very rare guys, whether they are bad or good, is that I'm a woman. Why am I attracted to them?

I only had good experience with one guy that did have ginger hair/red hair and didn't cause any problem when did come to women and did left him alone. He did talk to some women but did leave after talking to women. I...

CaitlinSims25

Xper 5 Age: 27