What would you think as a guy if you saw this happen to your crush?

[Anonymous]

So I have to wear extensions for dance purposes for a specific aesthetic. My choice of style are tiny braids. During class, from what I could tell, though not really sure because I was focused on learning the choreography, my crush was watching me dance and I accidently pulled out one of my braids which fell to the floor. In dance, we have to keep going no matter what so I kept Going and immediately when done, I picked up the hair extension and rolled it up then proceeded to continue learning choreography. After that he still stared at me and stole glances but a part of me feels like he may have been turned off. I have long natural hair so I’m not bald but… I don't know. What do you guys think?

[DishLady]

@emanon25 and @spartan55 are right on here. I get that you might feel embarrassed, but that doesn’t mean the guy was shocked/turned off by it (or even saw it happen).


My guess is he was more focused on watching your moves and how you comport yourself, not so much your hair situation.

[Asker]

Interesting take. I can agree as dancers are normally intrigued by other dancers.

[Emanon25]

Don’t give it much attention, if he likes for your hair then no need for him, but if he likes for who you are then you don’t have to worry about that part of fallen braids.

[Asker]

Thank you! ❤️

[Emanon25]

You’re welcome

[spartan55]

I think you are making a huge assumption.

[Asker]

I could be. True. A part of me feels he saw it happen though.

[spartan55]

Okay, so what if he did?

[Asker]

That’s embarrassing then.

[spartan55]

Why? Most guys don't care about that type of thing. Just pretend like it never happened.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice. I guess I’m an over thinker.