Ladies, what would you think of your boyfriend if this happened?

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend has always been:

-Not jealous of other guys
-Not worried about anything in life
-Career driven
-Very decisive and a leader
-Pretty confident

Then one day he has the previous partners size conversation with you about his penis. It was a one time thing, not something he brings up alot. It has been 9 months since then and he hasn't brought it up again, but now the girl reassures him every once in awhile about how big he is or not to even think about his size.

Do you see him as insecure overall or insecure just about one particular subject? Or maybe not insecure, just had a moment or conversation where he was insecure.

[Prettygurl12]

I wouldn't see him as insecure at all.

I mean, in my PERSONAL situation I'd think of him as silly and ridiculous if he continued to be insecure about it. I don't have a sexual history. I'd never even kissed another guy before my boyfriend so I would think it silly of him to ask that knowing I'd never gotten past 1st base before him.

But if in fact I did have a history or we'd never discussed it before, no, it's not silly at all. I don't know that I'd mention it again like the girl in question does, but maybe she's just trying to boost his ego? Although I can see how that might backfire for her lol

[Hajar_Whitestone]

we are friends not in relationship I'll break up with him. I was having BF like that and I did dump him

[Asker]

why?

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@Asker a dislike guys who doesn't get jealous or worried

[Asker]

ok, good to know.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

it's like insecure area to me, guy who doesn't get jealous or worried he doesn't really love the girl because does 2 thing are so important in a RS

[Asker]

my girlfriend says the same thing, she is like concerned that I am not jealous, but the reason I am not jealous is because it shows that I am high status. On the other hand, I protect her and I don't let her do anything disrespectful to me with another guy

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@Asker Even you must be jealous and show jealousy if not in the end your girl will get bored and dump you believe me for us girls what make us realy stick with a guy isn't his look or his money but the way he treated be jealous is a part of that but not that jealousy who make the girl feel like if she is in prison :3 I did break up with my EX because 2 thing was a lair and he wasn't jealous and that did eventually shot me down and make me off

[alliknowisthatidont]

I wouldn't think he was insecure I would think he was curious

[crazyincalifornia]

Another anon dumb dick question.
Will this ever end?

[Waddup]

Maybe a little insecure about this one area, but not very seeing as it wasn't brought up much in conversation etc
And it's very normal to feel a little insecure about a few things so it wouldn't alter my opinion of him