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She has been sending me messages with images containing phrases like "you make me happy," "dream of me," "I'm thankful to have you in my life," "you make my day," "I always think of you," "you make me feel amazing," and things like that but most of the time doesn't say anything as affectionate in the actual messages. She explained yesterday that it's very hard for her to be open with her emotions because of her hard life, but that it's "not as bad" with me, which she likes, and I've helped her express them a lot. That made me wonder if she was using the images to express things she was too shy to write. She does usually tell me I'm amazing, the sweetest, the best, handsome, and wonderful in messages. However she shocked me yesterday when she sent "I adore you." She also said "you're very important to me" at the end of our last phone call. That was a few days ago and she hasn't called since, furthering my wonder that maybe she's too shy or scared about what she may say. So now I've really been wondering if she's in love or falling in love with me. I really do hope so, she's the most amazing person!

Lets say a male is dating another male... but that person is converting to a different gender... whom knows which one.

That can be really messed up if the first male didn't know the other other wanted to change in the first place, causing sexual frustrations. They may be confused themselves on their gender identity... maybe they should switch too, causing the other to lose interest?

Add to it, the person they are dating could be putting an emotional burden on them about how people don't like trans people and they call trans people mentally ill. Hurting the feelings of the partner might invoke the first person to fits of hatred and rage... pride... enough to do harm to others.

It all seems nuts, but in this mindset, it seems they may act out... and feel good about what they did.. because they are confused and kind nutty in the first place. Maybe they kill someone to defend the honor of their gender changing mate? It be justified to some to silence the voice harming the one they care for, might even feel good about it, but later, confused. People have been known to kill on command from others. doesn't' take much.

Lastly, do you think such people caught up in such gender, sexual, and relational confusions might possibly... have mental illnesses lurking? Like... some deeper issues that distort reality?

It's girls ask guys... so seems a valid psychological question.

It strikes me... without a reference point for what is sane, it's difficult to have that... sanity...

It's all conjecture...