Why is being social a big deal?

[Anonymous]

Being social is overrated as fuck. Lemme give you two examples, one is so called social and second is being alone at home.

1. Being social and outside with friends

First of all, you have to dress well, take care of yourself for hours, then spend money outside at cafes and restaurants just to please other egoistic friends. Maybe they will say something you won't like, make your mood lower, maybe you will do the things that you don't like just to make them happy. Go places you don't like, listen to songs you don't like etc.

2. Being at home and so called loneliness

Now you are free. This is freedom. All time is yours. Just watch the videos and movies you like by yourself. Make something for yourself at kitchen. Listen to songs you like. And no one is there to judge you, criticize you. No one can screw your brain. No one can fullfill their egos on you.

That's why I quit hanging out with anyone for years, no one can reach my phone number. Fuck fake friends anyway.

[_Maya_]

Because most people enjoy being social. You don't. That's your prerogative. No need to rant against those that like being social and around other people if you have taken care of the problem already as you so explained. I'm not sure why anyone that is content in their own world where no one contacts them would even give this a second thought... unless they are truly not happy and this is just a way to project that they are when they actually are not. Making an excuse that your world is perfect being alone while raging against those that are happy around others sounds more like someone trying to justify their choice or perhaps lack thereof rather than someone that is truly happy being alone with no friends

[Asker]

Then why do society attack my choices? The only harm they got from friends and so called shittt social life

[_Maya_]

I personally don't know of people attacking those that choose a solitary life.

[Abbycado]

Lol. Just because you have no friends doesn't mean that other people like to have them.

[Asker]

Hello Abbycado. How are you? I have lots of friends really.

[Abbycado]

I'm fine. Well, if you have lots of friends, then why wouldn't you want to be social with them?

[Asker]

Because i don't like judgmental tones. They make me regret sharing things.

[Asker]

But i would love to have a lovely friend like you. Because i like your posts on the website. :)

[Abbycado]

Well, I likely don't live anywhere around you. ☹️

[Asker]

Everything can start online first. And them someday we can meet. :)

[Abbycado]

Online is fine.

[Asker]

Ok, now how can I message you? :)

[Abbycado]

Well, I don't open my DMs because if I do, I get tons of pervs wanting to talk sex.

[Asker]

Oh you are right then. Can you open it for 30 mins so i can dive to the box lol.

[Nikki1989]

What a sad, miserable soul you are.

You are like a gray sprinkle on a rainbow cupcake. Enjoy your bleak, desolate existence.

[Asker]

Well mrs. Smartass... Tell me, what you gained through your pathetic friends in life so far? Just full of misery, other than that nothing...

[Anonymous]

It's not a really big deal for me.

I agree with your examples.

I'm mostly just like you.

[jahaims]

Sounds like you are just a selfish person who lacks honest introspection