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Some background on my friend. She is very caring, strong, and loves getting people together. Sarah is pretty, always full makeup, hair curled, and always wearing something flattering. I am one who dresses more for comfort than appearance. I don’t like wearing makeup unless we are going out with friends or to do something where we are going to be in public all day. My boyfriend earlier on used to bring up how I should go shopping with my friend so I could start dressing like her. I told him her clothes are very expensive and not something I really wanted to put my money towards even when it comes to sweats. So for Christmas last year he bought me a bunch of lululemon. He says I need to be presentable when walking the dogs around our neighborhood. My friends have recognized when they all want us to do something the only person that can get my boyfriend interested is if Sarah tells him. He constantly gets upset with me that we never do what he wants, but he isn’t recognizing we always do what Sarah wants. He is a lot nicer and social with Sarah than he is with me. When I ask him why that is he says he would be the same way to me if I treated him how Sarah treats him. He is always asking who Sarah is dating and what she is up to. This is all so odd to me because he accuses me of having things with his friends if I even talk to them for 30 seconds, Let alone if I were to ever bring them up in convo. Last weekend I was upset about something else and it made me feel not good enough. He immediately brought up Sarah and how he doesn’t want her just me. My issue with the Sarah conversation isn’t that I think they would be together it is that I’m jealous of the attention and how nice he is to her in comparison to me. Throughout the night he would come up and say the same thing, I don’t want Sarah. I finally said I know for a fact Sarah doesn’t want you so I would really appreciate you stop saying that. It also just validates you aren’t hearing why that topic annoys me. So?

Long story short

• We met online 1 month ago and texted back and forth ever since pretty often, lately it was daily. Last 2 weeks we switched to calls and talked for HOURS;
• SOMETIMES, he took a few hours to respond to my texts, but he doesn't use his phone often, I also noticed his social media is very very DRY, I think he never even posted a story or any content on his socials whatsoever... so makes me think he doesn't use his phone much
• We know A LOT about each other, and have TONS of things in common, he told me personal things, and always told me he enjoyes our conversations, we both want a serious relationship, nothing casual.
• We met the other day for the very first time, had a whole day date in a city that we wanted to explore, we basically had breakfast, lunch and dinner
• We talked nonstop, at some point as we where walking through the town we started holding hands and got touchy more and more as the day went by
• I noticed that he never used his phone, just once to use google maps and another time to call his friend for an information.. that's it he never touched his phone (GREEN FLAG to me)
• By the end of our date, after we literally talked, teased each other, joked around for 10 freaking hours, we got on this public boat bus (or w. e. they are called) and it drove us around the lake and it got crowded, and we had no space in between us so we Kissed...(I had a heart attack I loved it so much)
• And yes, ever since that kiss we did kiss more often here and there until we said our goodbies an went home... lol
• The next day, he was a little distanced, but he is from time to time but I still OVERTHINK and immediately come to the conclusion that he does not like me, but then he always comes back and shows interest... he said he wants a second date shortly, he is also wanting to travel somewhere with me... but I did have to ask IF HE LIKES ME , (cause i'm a little weird and insecure at times) and he said VERY MUCH SO, but yet his answers where kind of dry in general...