Search Results: what to talk about with your boyfriend

Girls, should I give her more tim to reach out ot just call and text her?

Hi, so... I need help with the girl that I'm dating right now because I don't know what to do. And I would like to know if I should call, text her or give her more time. We met on Tinder in March 2023. It turns out, she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does this girl thinking about me?

I met with a girl 1 week ago and she is my classmate at university and she asked me something I have written in the WhatsApp group of the course and she said thanks and she complainted about the pressure of working while...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My brain literally hurts, some fresh perspectives please?

My boyfriend urges me to share my emotions, but reacts negatively when I express myself. He often makes excuses or becomes frustrated and shifts blame when I calmly bring up issues between us. Regardless of how frustrated...

Anonymous

(30-35)

POLL- Why girls don’t want to have girl friends and only hang out with their boyfriend/SO?

I have noticed recently girls only want spend time with their boyfriend and not a friend that’s a girl. I don’t see girls open to make a new girl friend. I have a cousin that’s my enemy and once I tried visit her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he done with the relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other things which I forgave him for & moved on from. Over time, I did individual therapy to get past old trauma and we went to couple’s counseling unofficially for a couple of months which both was extremely helpful since we do have communication issues.

Recently, we decided to go on a vacation & he decided that he wanted to go to Niagara Falls since he was picky about the destination. I created a google doc & everything for the trip to keep track of expenses & itinerary. Since I was in charge of the rental car, I got it, picked him up from the airport, & he had normal behavior. That ended when we missed a turn, & he advised me to do a 3-point turn to which the police pulled me over for. I blamed him immediately & he got extremely upset to the point he didn’t want to talk to me anymore even though he was still a little at fault regardless if it was my decision to do it.

Later on in the trip, he quickly realized he didn’t pack the right clothes so I gave him both of my jackets so he wouldn’t be cold. He tried to do the half sharing jacket thing, & I told him no since the jacket was wet & he got very upset again where he stated “you ruined the trip because of your attitude.” By the end of the trip, he stated how we’re “so different”, how he is unhappy due to thinking about all the bad things he’s done in the past to me, & wants me to be with someone better. I was shocked since I thought he moved on from it, & I advised him to start therapy since he stated he wasn’t sure what he wanted from life himself. He kept rejecting the idea of it stating how it wouldn’t help, but eventually agreed to try. I told him I didn’t want to break up since I personally wasn’t unhappy being with him & my happiness is my decision to which he said “it’s not about you, it’s me.” What do you think? We are long distance

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Girls, shoul I break up with the girl I'm dating or what should I say to her? She's still not over her ex. M30 F32?

Hi, so I think I have to break up with the girl I'm dating. Not because I don't like her or anything, but because she's not ready for me. The thing is, what can I say? I don't want to lose her. M30 F32. Background: We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Confused about this girl's behaviour! What to think?

Started texting on WhatsApp 2 months back. Initially ignored as she is much younger, 23. But seemed like a nice person and seemed like she needed to talk so I showed involvement. She opened up. All her pain and trauma....

Sentimental_Stoic

Xper 5 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Ex replied to my story... what to do?

Me and my ex boyfriend haven't talked for 40 days since our breakup. It was LDR (we would meet up) but we decided the long distance wasn't for us. It was a very mutual breakup but on my end I was destroyed. We were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are you still friends with an ex spouse and how does it affect your dating life?

My boyfriend is friends with his exwife. I don’t think you should be friends with an ex. I think you should leave the past in the past. If you’re friends with an ex what are your reasons? How often do you talk/hangout?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you give up your 5 year relationship?

My boyfriend of 5 years that I’ve talked about marriage and kids with has to move a thousand miles away due to family things that he has to do. He wants me to move with him and start a life there with him. He would be the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he being so mean?

My boyfriend of four years we been together for awhile and we have some bumps in the road a lot with my insecurities and him saying I don’t support him working on weekends for extra cash. We just got into an argument...

Cass510

Xper 5 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Why is that my boyfriend follows all of these hot chicks online but doesn’t like my photos?

I recently discovered he’s been following all of these hot chicks that are fit and have a sexy figure 🍒🍑, and even found out he’s been watching live naked girls on Instagram. It really messes with my head. I have had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does she act distant after break up?

So I know this girl who had a boyfriend and one day she started snapping me and we talked a lot and had good conversations together over the next month. She also sent very revealing pics almost daily. Now she broke up...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If your significant other was depressed, would you offer your support?

I've noticed more people are being diagnosed with depression. If you noticed your boyfriend/girlfriend was feeling hopeless and pretended they were feeling OK, but you knew they weren't, would you offer your support? If...

Leapfrog00

Yoda Age: 44

He doesn't talk to her. Yet he wants me to play on her phone. Is this even normal?

My boyfriend has been ignoring his pregnant baby's mother her whole pregnancy. She's 7 months now. But at the same time, he wants me to play on her phone. We actually called her together. And she was like, "what's the...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Was I The Moster or Was He part 2 (monster)?

Like I said all hell broke lose. I would dress up in maid costumes and take provocative pictures of myself that I'd rather not see on the internet and he wouldn't say a word he would just keep the pics and when it's your...

Mitsamono

Xper 5 Age: 23

What does it mean when your boyfriend gives you a t shirt as gift and gives his girl best friend a lavie hand bag?

My boyfriend have a girl best friend from 8yrs which he refers her as just friend. They have known each other before me and they had one casual night and that's when became best friends in boyfriend case "friends". She...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it okay to snoop if you have suspicions?

Is it okay to go through your partner's phone if you feel something is off? What if you don't find anything, does it mean you were wrong or it's hidden? What do you do if you get caught? About 6 weeks ago, my boyfriend...

Anonymous

(25-29)