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My boyfriend has been ignoring his pregnant baby's mother her whole pregnancy. She's 7 months now. But at the same time, he wants me to play on her phone. We actually called her together. And she was like, "what's the point of you ignoring me then playing on my phone with your girlfriend". Which i asked him the same thing. I feel like He's got me doing things to her on purpose because she slept with his cousin years ago. Which she said she didn't know. Is this even normal? He lets me argue and pick with her and never told her we were together. Every time she texts him telling him im bothering her, he doesn't text back. I read everything from her. He leaves his phone with me to stress her out ig. 🤷
He doesn't talk to her. Yet he wants me to play on her phone. Is this even normal?
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No, this is not normal behavior. It sounds like your boyfriend is using you to manipulate and harass the mother of his child, which is not only disrespectful but also potentially harmful to everyone involved. It's concerning that he is ignoring her during her pregnancy and allowing you to pick fights with her. You should consider talking to him about how his behavior is affecting you and the situation, and encourage him to communicate directly and respectfully with the mother of his child. It's important to prioritize the well-being of the child and to avoid engaging in harmful or manipulative behavior.
He said he doesn't want anything to do with her or the baby... he said im more important.
Oh lord... he is sick for sure..
He invites me over just to talk about her and leaves his phone with me to talk about her with him. .. he even told me to send a picture of us having sex which i did it to make him happy
He cheated on me with her. Im his actual girlfriend.
I am sorry to hear that you have been put in such a difficult situation. It is not healthy or respectful for your boyfriend to involve you in conversations or actions related to his past infidelity with his ex-girlfriend. It is also not appropriate for him to pressure you into sending intimate pictures or engaging in behaviors that you are not comfortable with.
You deserve to be with someone who respects and values you, and who does not engage in infidelity or emotional manipulation. I would recommend considering talking to your boyfriend about your feelings and setting clear boundaries in your relationship. If he is unable or unwilling to respect your boundaries and prioritize your well-being, it may be time to reassess the health of your relationship and consider whether it is worth continuing. Additionally, seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or therapist may also be helpful for you during this difficult time.
I've yelled at her and he told me to threaten her life so that she won't go back to her home. Ig he's really angry at her.
He's a terrible one. You deserve better.
Well I don't know. Does it sound like he's playing me? Because he did say im more important than her.
I certainly wouldn't trust him.
And honestly, i was bragging about him being with me and not her to make myself feel good. But really it feels like im dying inside. Smh
You are torturing yourself spiritually, it is not good for you to be with him. Good luck i guess..
You remind me of someone whose obsessed with me. He could be very well just be using both of you. Using the pawns to keep fucking the both of you. It's very weird why you'd want to continue supporting a guy who hasn't put a ring on your finger. Just don't become the second baby mom. If he's capable of treating her like shit don't you think he's capable of treating you like shit? Then realize you are being treated like shit now? Because just ask yourself. It doesn't feel good. Does it?
How is he treating me like shit?
Because you arnt the only one lol
And then you're feeding into both of their bullshit. You're playing around with this girl. You want to be her so bad. Too bad she's having his kid and will ALWAYS be around. Like it or not. Doesn't matter what he says to you about not wanting the baby HE can't KEEP HER NAME OUT HIS MOUTH TRUST ME THEY WILL FOREVER BE FUCKING
She's the only one texting his phone. He don't even text her back unless i ask him to.
Plus im the only one who's allowed at his house, She isn't. He'll see her walking pass and drive pass her with me in the car. He doesn't like her.
Well of course he won't pick you up. You're what's called convient pussy.
Why upset one pussy and lose one pussy and not have 2 pussies to play with?
Plus, why you telling your man to text a broad you don't like? Grow the fuck up. Admit you both share him and swap out pussy juices and spit and call it a mf day. 🤣
Won't pick her up*
He doesn't talk to her and don't even do for her while she's pregnant with his baby. So how are we sharing him? She slept with his cousin also.
Girl who cares who she slept with? Your boyfriends seed is in that girl growing lol
And how do you know he doesn't do anything? Cause he says so? He probably eats her ass when he's not with you cooking, cleaning giving her money?
He has a lot of women actually. I just don't want him talking to HER and he DOESN'T!
Trust and believe i was texting her with him. She said has bought her anything because he don't believe the baby is his.
Aww that's too bad. He can request a DNA test to dead that lol
Well as of now, he doesn't want her or that baby. That's why I'm here at his house now. While she's out with god knows who. ☺
Uh huh we will see about tomorrow or next week when he's with her RAW dogging her. And you're back on GAG batching and complaining about sharing a weak person called a man
Bitching***
Probably so. But He's with me now, Raw dogging me. so that's all that matters. I like women too. We just don't want HER in our bedroom because she's dirty, homeless and BROKE
Okay.
Trust! If i want them to talk, i will tell him to. ☺
Gone head with your bad self lol
Can I pm you?