I am scared. I had a talk with my boyfriend and told him I wanted more communication from him because I dont know what he's doing when I dont hear from him the whole day. We had sex and after I left I have not heard from him in 3 days. I think he dumped me. What did I do wrong and what does this mean?
It's understandable that you are feeling worried and confused about your boyfriend's sudden lack of communication. It's important to remember that there could be many reasons for his behavior, and it's not necessarily a reflection of anything you did wrong.
It's possible that he may be dealing with personal issues or stressors, or that he may simply be busy or unavailable for a few days. However, it's also possible that he may be intentionally avoiding you or may have decided to end the relationship without communicating this to you directly.
The best way to find out what is going on is to communicate directly with him and express your concerns and feelings. It's important to approach the conversation calmly and respectfully, and to be open to hearing his perspective and feelings as well.
If he is unwilling to communicate or continues to avoid you, it may be a sign that the relationship is not healthy or sustainable. It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to make decisions that align with your values and priorities.
Remember that you deserve to be with someone who respects and values you, and who is willing to communicate openly and honestly about their feelings and intentions. It can be difficult to navigate relationships, but it's important to approach the situation with care and caution, and to prioritize your own well-being and boundaries.
Depending on how long you've been going out this would freak me out a little...
"...told him I wanted more communication from him because I don't know what he's doing when I don't hear from him the whole day."
If you've said this before to him, then he may feel as though he can't do anything without reporting to you 24/7. He may have just stepped away because you are being insecure and need to know where he is at all times.
If he's given you no reason to be worry about where he is, then you don't want to go down this road. If other guys did you wrong in this department, don't take it out on the guy you are with, unless he's being an ass and deserves it.
How new is the relationship? A super new relationship id say he's ghosting. If it's more stable then maybe he's just one of those people who doesn't need to be constantly in contact. Do y'all still hangout and see each other in between these gaps in communication?
I'm not an expert but a guy who's serious about you, won't make you wait for 3 days straight.. unless he's playing mind games. They can't even handle to not talk to you or to not ask how have you been for a day. How long have you been together?
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Just 3 days, no? I think women count the days. They're like calendar freaks. This day is this, next day is that, this day we have this, Thursday is your dentist appointment but after we can do this, Friday is thi.
3 days in guys length is like 30 minutes in girls. Maybe he went to the toilet.
I think you should dump him. Don't have sex with him anymore and demand you be treated like a girlfriend or else.
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