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Search Results: a guys first time
Why do guys feel the need to make me self conscious?
This guy yesterday went out of his way to make it clear he doesn’t find me attractive. Like, okay — we’re not dating, so what’s the issue? I’m attractive; I’m just not that 'baddie' type, and once again, I’m being...
Anonymous
(30-35) I don't even know if I love her or am I really grieving now or just used to her in my life?
We had been together for 3 years. The first 2 years were great, but during the third year, I became distant. My mental state was in a bad place. Most of the time, when she called me at night and was sweet and...
blazerock44
Xper 7 Age: 27 Is this normal?
I went out on a date with a guy for the first time Sunday night. He was making intense eye contact with me and didn’t look away even when I was making eye contact back. Can’t tell if this is really good sign or just...
throwmeaway1111
Xper 4 Age: 26 To the women with boyfriends?
To the women with boyfriends. So this girl during training class was eyeing me for a couple of times. Very attractive woman and I thought nah she'll never notice me. I thought maybe late 20s early 30s. Very vintage...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I make a good first impression after a long time to a guy as a shy girl?
It's a complicated situation but me and this guy don't know if we want to be together or just be friends. I've known him for 6 years and we are in a relationship right now after being best friends for so long. It's a long...
french_omelette
Xper 2 Age: 19 My guy best friend got a girlfriend and stopped talking to me. Why is that?
So I have a guy friend, we've known each other for two years and were close. We would text almost every day, send each other tiktoks, reels, we went a few times for a coffee (he paid every time..), went to the cinema (we...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 I have a situationship with this guy and I don’t know what to do?
As i said, i (27) have a situationship with this guy (29), we live in different cities which are around an hour from each other. I know that he is into me (other people noticed, his body language says it all, he is...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, I met a guy on a dating app but he spends more time talking about having sex with me, than getting to know me. What should I do?
I’ve been out of the dating scene for fifteen years now and previously I’ve only had one boyfriend. I am very inexperienced when it comes to love, so if my question comes off silly, well I apologize in advance. Anyway, I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I end things before they get too serious?
3 months ago I met this guy in one of my classes, When we first started talking we started texting for a few days then he ghosted for around a week. I was chill cause he was only a friend then he came back we spoke for a...
bethrog08
Xper 2 Age: 27 I have a situationship with an avoidant and I don’t know what to do?
As i already said, i (27) have a situationship with this avoidant guy (29), i define him avoidant because he NEVER texts first, he’s just there telling me that he’s happy to hear from me, but never initiate conversation....
Anonymous
(25-29) After wasting 10 years of my life, this is how I'm bouncing back.
Hello all. This is not a vent or a call for help. I'm just sharing my journey of failures, trauma and learnings from 2014 to 2024. I hope this might help some who are in similar situation. Let's rewind time to 2015. I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) For those that use Bumble: Is this a lame opening move question?
My last one was more thought provoking, it was what would be a question you wished people asked you…went for something more light this time around. A few guys have msged first😶
Anonymous
(30-35) 
I love someone from a different country, what should I do?
Friends, my foreign language is very bad, so I was messaging with foreigners on an app to improve my English. This summer, I was going to go abroad for a project and I started talking to people from that country to get...
Anonymous
(18-24) The covert assistant?
Anyone ever deal with a woman who tries to be a secret but is anything but that? she might as well spray paint "I was here" across a guys entire body. When i can easily tell it's supposed to be some kind of secret thing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would a player put this much effort?
When we first started talking back in February, I wasn't looking for anything. I was pregnant from my ex. I ended up having an unexpected miscarriage in March. This guy turned into my emotional support system during that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I the first girl to not care about losing their baby daddy lol?
I guess I’m being clowned online that my baby daddy left me for his female roommate lol. Here’s why I don’t care : 1) we were not compatible 2) the guy talks shit about everybody and he’s not even better than them...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he want me?
I was laying with my guy friend in bed and my friend was sleeping between us. We held hands and i was caressing his hand, he didn’t caress my hand but then he put his other hand on mine and held me for a long time. We...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, do you prefer when a girl makes the first move, or does it make you feel awkward?
In the experiences where I made the first move, things somehow shifted. I ended up being taken for granted. It felt like my effort to show genuine interest was mistaken for desperation. Instead of meeting me halfway, they...
audreyrogers
Xper 1 Age: 25 He tried to sleep w me first date. Red flag?
So I went on a date w a guy and it was supposed to be grabbing food but I wasn’t hungry so it was a drive but he taken me to this car park spot and we spoke for ages and then he kept trying to hook up w me in his car even...
Brunettexoxo
Xper 5 Age: 25 Why am I always a target?
This happens to me a couple of times where a guy will come off super into me but after a while will friendzone me mid-convo by calling me his sister or buddy then flirt with me again later… I used to have a sexual...
Anonymous
(25-29) 