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To the women with boyfriends.

So this girl during training class was eyeing me for a couple of times. Very attractive woman and I thought nah she'll never notice me. I thought maybe late 20s early 30s. Very vintage fashion sense and to herself unless she talks to her small circle. Even when all the class went to eat i looked around and notice again she looked my way.

Well then maybe a week later she started talking to me first and handing me small things like candy and when the subject of our favorite menu items came she just brought me Food items. How could I not accept but i was confused. I'm almost 200lbs so its not like i was signaling for help. Well the 2nd time came and at the same time found she was in her late teens.

So then I backed off a bit cause then she talked about her boyfriend in passing so I had a good reason to back up and set a boundary in silence. I tried ignoring a couple of times to let it be known but still she asks me all these questions. Basically personal things to get to know me better. There was a moment of eye contact where we stared at each other for a few seconds and then i broke it off.

I notice she came in wearing make up one time and that was it never since then. To this day still brings me food even after I try to set a clear distance but now its like this slow burn thing where these small gestures are growing on me in a weird way and it doesn't help that i dont expect her to and she just comes in with a full breakfast meal.

I tend to say no to things especially when i'm almost 30 and she's 19 but very attractive, smart and dresses in her own way thats her own personality. Ugh this is so dumb but whatever. I wonder if women w/boyfriends act this way towards guys they have no interest in and if it really is just them being nice. I think its harmless i sometimes bring her a lunch here and there but not as frequent as she does torwards me.

Only thing i overheard is her boyfriend tends to be a poor communicator and listener.

Summeroflove · Answer

It really just depends if she’s talking to everyone maybe she just has bad boundaries and does this a lot. Maybe for some reason she’s found of you but not romantically or sexually.

But unfortunately it happens where not everyone’s loyal remember if someone would cheat with you they will cheat on you. Be respectful and tell her you’re there to work out and would like to be left alone but you appreciate her kindness. If she doesn’t leave you alone you may just need to be more firm despite what her intentions may be it’s not okay to bother someone whose asked you to leave them alone.

If she’s bad mouthing her boyfriend just simply tell her you don’t want to hear about it. That right there can spark nothing but trouble.

Abbycado · Answer

Alright, and? Is there a question in there somewhere?

To the women with boyfriends?

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