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Guys, I met a guy on a dating app but he spends more time talking about having sex with me, than getting to know me. What should I do?

I’ve been out of the dating scene for fifteen years now and previously I’ve only had one boyfriend. I am very inexperienced when it comes to love, so if my question comes off silly, well I apologize in advance. Anyway, I met this guy on a dating app. He seems to have everything I wanted in a guy and is very handsome to boot, but unfortunately all he speaks of is sex. He said that he was interested in getting to know me, but he doesn’t ask questions or try to learn more about me or my life. Instead, he only talks of having sex with me and how much he will like doing this or that. I try to get him into engage in other topics in order to see how he would integrate into my life, but he always finds some way to bring it back to the topic of sex. I asked him to video chat or have a phone call as opposed to texting, with the hope that we would be able to carry on a more normal conversation. But unfortunately, every time that we schedule a time to do so, he flakes out and stops answering my texts for the day. (The first day we met online we did video chat, so I was able to confirm that he is who he says he is). The other thing that is that he always asks me to be his girlfriend, even though I feel we haven’t even gotten to know each other well enough in speaking and have yet to meet in person. I don’t know what to make of this guy or this situation, so I am here asking for advice and help. Why do you think he is doing this? Should I continue trying to get him to learn more about me or should I just count my losses and find someone else? Thank you for your help in advance.

Guys, I met a guy on a dating app but he spends more time talking about having sex with me, than getting to know me. What should I do?
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