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Search Results: can I get him back
Ever been repelled by a physical characteristic because someone abusive in your past had it?
If you don't get what I mean I mean like if you had a really abusive ex that had a big nose and now you're repelled by big noses because of the trauma that person caused you. Doesn't have to be an ex though could be...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it weird that I openly admired a mans beard?
There is this guy in my town who works at Walmart who has a great long beard. You can tell her puts a lot of care into it. I see him basically everyday, and he sees me. I saw him today. I went up to him, and said "you...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 What To Do About Our Friendship?
I have been friends with a guy friend for about a year now as we met in grad school. We got closer as time went along and he event told me how he wanted me to be a part of his journey. It was so nice as we got closer and...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can people be like this?
Long story short, I had an ex [LDR] with whom I stayed 8 months for. Well the relationship was going very good for the first months. Then slowly I started recognising a toxicity pattern. Like DARVO , Gaslighting ,...
Alxve
Xper 4 Age: 19 My best friend kissed my ex?
My best friend (WHO HAS A BOYFRIEND) of 6-7 years kissed a guy i used to hook up with. Background The guy and I had a horrible falling out, he said awful things and never apologized for them. My best friend has seen...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
Should most social programs be put into one thing and have physical locations?
This might be my greatest sober idea. What if you combined a bunch of the social programs aimed at homeless or otherwise downtrodden but able bodied and put buildings up around the country. They would have classes and...
Is this my moms cat, or mine?
So 3 years ago when I lived with my mom, she wanted to get a kitten. I didn't push her to do it, but I expressed excitement and helped her pick the kitten out. About a year ago I moved out, and asked my mom if I could...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Do you think my coworkers were right for me needing to back off a bit from our students?
We work with autistic children so we have a total of 10 students. Ages 5-7. Anyways there’s this little boy that I absolutely adore. I don’t know there’s someone about him that I adore. Don’t get me wrong I adore them...
Anonymous
(25-29) Don't men have it easier than women?
Women can't have kids over 40. This means her dating prospects will go significantly downhill once she turns 40. A man can have kids anytime in life- which makes dating a it EASIER at an older age. An ugly man can make up...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can someone make it ok to cheat in one relationship, but not the other, if so? What am I missing?
I wonder how it was possible for my ex to tell me he would dump his girlfriend if I took him back, or too him leaving a girlfriend because he said she wasn't like me, that I saw no sign of him being able to cheat (on me)...
Noredcarpet
Xper 5 Age: 46 The Last Word: I Apologized, He Said 'It's About You,' Then He Blocked Me. Will He Ever Stop Hating Me?
I broke up with my boyfriend of two years about a month ago. The main reason was his inability to communicate properly, which held me back and took a toll on me. I always tried to help him, planned everything for us, and...
angelwingsss
Xper 1 Age: 19 When you start talking to a guy/dating, should you text daily or sometimes?
I’ve never had a boyfriend, so I never texted a guy daily 24/7 . The one guy I dated used me as friends with benefits and we would text daily but sometimes go days without texting. I got used to that life and began see it...
Sugar100
Yoda Age: 29 Crush on an older guy — are these signs he might like me back?
I have a crush on an older guy in one of my classes, and I’m trying to figure out if he might like me back. He’s a little shy and awkward, but some of his behavior has been making me wonder. Whenever we talk, we have...
forestfairystix
Xper 1 Age: 24 Is the fitness industry also collapsing into degeneracy now?
like a typical millenial I got my first inspiration in ever hitting the gym and getting into shape from men like Arnold Schwarzenegger and Lou Ferrigno. after watching them in movies and shows I would always think "man...
Filthy_Immigrant
Yoda Age: 39 Would it be wrong to charge my aunt more rent, and ask her to move out if she can't?
she's not really my aunt. Just a family friend. My brother and I own a mobile home. My brother lives in another city. My aunt and I moved into the mobile home in feb of 2025. She was really getting on my nerves and...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Is it a red flag when the woman never messages me first (but always responds when I message)?
I’ve started to get to know a young woman who I met a social gathering a few weeks ago. It’s been friendly / playful but I straight up told her at one point I was interested. That should be obvious to women when a man...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I wrong for judging books by their covers?
My family has an empty apartment in the city center, and instead of handing it over to an agent, I decided to manage the rental myself. My only rule was "families or students only." I’m paranoid about this because years...
capriVib
Explorer Age: 23 Why do ex partners from your past show up in your present, seeking to reconnect with you?
This man has been married since 2014, and it always appears to be a competition with his wife. I know a woman who got involved with him out of spite and ended up having an abortion. She has children with other men but...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is a classic advice phrase you hate to hear?
I posted about how I’m deciding to stay single since I have zero luck with dating and I get your trying to give advice but geez almost everyone said “your young” or “just wait it’ll come to you” like seriously… everyone...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you think he is just (50M) very fond of me or into me (32F)?
He is a colleague. I really can’t understand if he is really fond of me as a person or if he is interested in me romantically but trying to hide or it something. Sometimes I am sure that it is romantic, sometimes I am...
Anonymous
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