Search Results: ignoring a guy

Guys, Acting keen when we met then not showing interest or effort afterwards?

I went on blind date as arranged by a friend. We had a great time and he was laying it on thick saying he finds me so attractive, I'm so feminine and soft. I had said I also find him attractive and interesting. He kept...

Unrealiseddream

Xper 4 Age: 40

Why is it so hard for guys to be emotional?

Maybe it’s just the guys that I attract, but why is it that they’re so emotionally mature and available at the beginning of the relationship and then I move in with them and all hell breaks loose? They start acting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it love-bombing or is it just an awkward situation, and he is just using her to get back at an ex girlfriend?

My friend had a brief fling with this guy and certain circumstances meant she got pregnant but decided not to keep the baby due to going back to uni. However when she told him she was pregnant, before she had decided what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you agree w/ this persons take on how it can be healthier for Women’s psychology, to ask Men out, instead of waiting for permission like children?

I think she said it beautifully. It’s that anyone MUST initiate. But rather, to wait just for the sake of waiting. For permission. To live. Is detrimental. “Q : How do I ask a guy out on a date? A : Did you know, that...

VIVANT

Influencer Age: 28

I think she said it beautifully. It’s that anyone MUST initiate. But rather, to wait just for the sake of waiting. For permission. To live. Is detrimental. “Q : How do I ask a guy out

I think she said it beautifully.

It’s that anyone MUST initiate. But rather, to wait just for the sake of waiting. For permission. To live. Is detrimental.

“Q : How do I ask a guy out on a date?

A : Did you know, that when it comes to psychology, when you say to someone you’re attracted to them, this increases their curiosity to you and even gets them thinking you’re attractive. It can, if the person sees you attractive already at an unconscious level, get him to start thinking of dating you.

Did you also know, that most men, the confident ones, whether it’s a bad boy or someone who is just confident guy, will be very impressed by you asking him out.

Did you also know, that you can tell if the persons values, the world is positive or stinks, shallow, by asking them out on a date. If that person who is a friend or someone you just met starts acting weird, ignores you, this tells you a lot about how deep down, they are not really good person. They judge people a lot, they are shallow.

A person who takes it as a compliment, even if they say they are not interested will be nice to you, and when you see them again, they’ll be looking forward to saying hello to you. That shows they have goodness inside them and they feel a lot of empathy.

Did you also know…the experienenced, confident guys or guys who have never dated, like open communication. They don’t like the games, the hints. Many guys are like that anyways.

When you say it, it is a relief for them because they know you’re not into the mind games, you’re not insecure and you are sincere.

Did you also know, you’re not the only one attracted to the guy.

There are women who are and so, if you don’t make the move then you make it possible and increase the chance to 95% that the other, whoever she is, who asks him out, gets the guy.

Did you also know, whenever you don’t take action on something or someone you want, your growth is slowed down. You’re not learning, growing in confidence. “

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A guy I was seeing just changed his mind over night? ? was seeing a guy for a few weeks, something I thought was casual seemed to become quite fullon?

We went out a few times and I had a couple of nights at his. I was suprised at just how affectionate and loving he was, we would kiss, cuddle and talked about lots of personal things for hours! I left his he seemed to go...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a man is in love, does he forget about all his problems ( including those pertaining to separate relationships) ?

I’m having relationship problems with a guy that fell for someone else whilst we were talking. There was a keen interest involved. I told him it had affected my mental health but he didn’t respond and now ignores my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does this all mean?

There is this guy (let's call him Jake) who used to flirt with me constantly over messenger (we had never met in person yet). We flirted back and forth. A year later, my new boyfriend (now husband) and Jake went to school...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my friend being love bombed?

My friend “22F” had a brief fling with this guy and certain circumstances meant she got pregnant but decided not to keep the baby due to going back to uni. However when she told him she was pregnant, before she had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, is it possible this guy had feelings at all?

So the situation is a bit of a complicated one, but I’ll make it short. It didn’t have to be complicated, but I definitely made it complicated I’ll be honest about that. met a guy that I really hit it off with, the vibes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, How do you know if you like someone and they like you back?

I met a guy online; we have been talking for hours on the phone, and we met once. The one time I met him was when he was coming from where he was working to where he lived. We drove around, talked, went to a hotel, and...

NicoleM300

Xper 5 Age: 40

How to deal with my former friends with benefits who still bothers me?

I had fuck friend over than 2 years ago, we used to close like dating. But he told me he doesn’t want relationship. And we both deal that we just do that like friends with benefits. But i met a nice guy, who wants...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I get my former fuck buddy to leave me alone?

I was screwing around with this guy for a couple of months. One month, I had a pregnancy scare and it made me re-evaluate the situation. He is definitely not someone that I would want to be genetically bound to or someone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did this guy block me because I didn’t open or read his message for 3 days on Facebook?

For context, I don’t know him that well, we are from the same town so we’ve known who each other are since we were teens and so I’ve seen him around for years and plus he’s friends with my cousin. Him and I are not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this a normal relationship between a man and women who are married to different people?

Me and my guy best friend have been besties for 4 years. We met through a mutual friend who ended up fucking us both over and kinda became friends from a mutual dislike of this girl. After we got talking we realised we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Gym crush odd behaviour?

I was introduced to this guy by a mutual friend, we all go to the same gym. He seemed friendly when we were briefly introduced outside the gym but whenever I tried to say hello, he would look away and avoid eye contact at...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

What should I do about these guys?

There are these men in our Autistic meetup group (and it’s a big meetup group with many tables); who keep trying to sit with my best friends and I, when we’re trying to enjoy our time together and meeting other people....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does he mean?

The guy I'm seeing has been friends with me for about 7 or 8 years. We always had significant others and never thought about each other that way. When he found out i was single he came back into my life and swooped me up...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)