How can I get my former fuck buddy to leave me alone?

[Anonymous]

I was screwing around with this guy for a couple of months. One month, I had a pregnancy scare and it made me re-evaluate the situation. He is definitely not someone that I would want to be genetically bound to or someone I would want a child with. I ended things as nicely as possible, “telling him that the situation had run its course”. He says fine and insists on being friends. Honestly, I do not want to be friends with him, being that he just reminds me of a period in my life that I’m not very proud of. However, he won’t let it go. I’d been ignoring his texts and calls. Eventually, I blocked him and he started calling from different phone numbers. Yesterday morning, I saw that someone slit my tires. I can’t really prove it’s him, but it’s interesting that this happened.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Calling from different phone numbers? WTF woman this guy has moved far beyond a friend's with benefits and he's going fucking psycho on you.

Oh shit I just read the part about your slit tires. Yeah real convenient isn't it? Might need a man to protect you... am I right? (I'm being sarcastic) This dude has dark triad traits and he's trying to lock your ass in.

But you're probably already thinking that.

You got to shake this guy off by all means, and pray to God he gets a new love interest so that it becomes her problem. Did you notice this behavior while you were still doing the jim jam on his film flam?

Anyways, my advice... don't accept any contact with this twisted fuck. Just a little bit of contact keeps them going. As you already know they keep going even after you're like "knaw bitch I'm cool" and they don't stop.

This is crazy because my last friends with benefits's contacted me after like a year and she's dealing with the same shit from some dude she messed around with. I can't do shit for her because I'm all the way on the other coast of the United States right now. She needs to stop fucking around with crazy fuckers and stick to safe dudes like myself, but that's another story.

Yeah don't give or receive any contact. Make each action he does a reinforcement to not have any friendly talk. The mistake you made was the "remain friends" part. Other than that he's going to figure out you're cutting off contact and Dark Triad dudes don't like that shit... they want control. So practice in the mirror and get protection because this dude will eventually try to get in your face.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Also, it's time to get law enforcement involved. Call your local police and just give a statement or maybe get a restraining order as well. These guys usually show a pattern and they end up moving because of it. Plus the police will probably patrol around you a bit more and might even get out of their cars to look around for a bit a couple times a night if nothing else has been keeping them busy. There might be a slight chance you're not the first woman to do it, but if you're the first... the next chick might have a chance to escape just because of the association the police have. Don't be afraid to go to call the station up and go in. A statement like, "If I end up dead, he's the one that did it" is way more than enough to get their noggins a jogging.

[larry69]

This is stalling and a felony in most states. Time for law enforcement.

[AI Opinion]

Yikes, quite the situation you've got there! Sounds like he's having a hard time moving on and maybe not handling rejection so well. Ghosting clearly didn't work. Make sure you're safe, first and foremost. 🚨 Consider documenting incidents like the tire-slashing (just in case) and make your boundaries crystal clear. If the harassment continues, don't hesitate to involve the authorities or seek a protective order. Prioritize your peace of mind, lovely! 💪 Stay strong and remember, your personal space is non-negotiable. 🛡️

[ubercharming]

Does he have feelings for you?

[Asker]

He said that he did not want a relationship, so I’m going to assume that he doesn’t.

[ubercharming]

It's weird indeed

[Danny_dan92]

Block him.

[negrl4a69]

Keep fucking him