Our agreement was to fuck eachother but only eachother and no one else until one of us wants to walk away.
The problem is I really miss him. I miss his hands all over my body, his possesiveness and playfulness and the sex was mind blowing. How do I get over him? I have to see him every day and we've already both started flirting with different people, but I do it just to forget I'm missing something I once had...
I mean, do you think I should get over him or try to fix the situation? I'm really stuck... help please, some advice? What would you do?
Most Helpful Girl
"Friends" with benefits is a huge disservice to yourself. First of all, if you guys were really "friends" then you'd care about each other more than to agree committing your valuable, limited time on Earth into a sleazy situation where you guys could get hurt. Friends have more respect and concern for each other's wellbeing than that. With that said, no, you should not try to fix this situation that is sincerely a waste of your time and bad for you. There's nothing healthy about a woman committing her time, energy, and parts of her mental capacity to a man who strictly intends on using her as a blowup doll with a heart beat. That is a smack in the face. All of the wonderful, noteworthy, valuable attributes about you and you only wish to be valued for your vagina? How well you can sexually gratify a penis attached to a man who would cut you off and flirt with someone else immediately after? Not cool.
Please do something better for your heart and spirit than this.
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