Fuck buddy stopped replying... hmm?

[dnc01]

I met this older guy (he's 8 years older) three years ago and we would occasionally hookup. We lost touch for a year and recently started texting again in June. He said he really wanted to see me, the feeling was mutual. In the past our sex has always been passionate/wild. We have a really amazing sexual connection. Since June we have been texting/sexting almost every other day and he would call me twice a week (phone sex) and small talk. In July a girl posted something on Insta saying he was "her man". I causally asked him if he was dating, I told him I wouldn't care I'm just curious. He said no but that he used to have a fuck buddy. That answered my question so I never brought up the post. He was constantly saying how excited he was and couldn't wait to see me. We have so much sexual tension built up between us. But for two months now he keeps saying he's busy, or something came up. Mind you, we live 10 mins away from each other. We've always been straight up with each other, no bs, just tell me what you want and I'll give it to you. Our fuck buddy relationship has always been really good! But recently he just stopped replying to me, it's been about 11 days since I've heard from him. He hasn't opened my snaps in 6+ days but post on his story. I sent him one message on fb, he didn't reply but is always online. And I texted him asking him if I said something wrong/if he didn't want to hook up anymore just be honest but I got no reply. I figured he'd block me on snap/fb because those are other ways I can contact him but he hasn't. Any idea why he might've changed his mind literally over night? I'm so lost as to why he ghosted after all was said lol.

[SarahsSummer]

He's just not that into you anymore. And more than likely has s new f#ck buddy or relationship that he doesn't want to mess up. Time to move on.

[dnc01]

True. Thanks for your input. Just irritating I guess why he couldn't just say that instead of blowing me off.

[BillieJean1070]

That's the problem with a friends with benefits. Usually they don't even have the decency to tell you it's over face to face.

[dnc01]

I would've been cool with a text. Just odd because it's just not like him to just not reply. Maybe he does have a girlfriend, I don't know. But a simple text would've been cool so I don't keep thinking if I said something wrong or not. Literally the last thing he said was that he wished he wouldn't have done a line because he wanted to come pick me up to fuck. I replied that we should just do it anyways who cares. Haven't heard from him since.

[dnc01]

I would've been cool with a text. Just odd because it's just not like him to just not reply. Maybe he does have a girlfriend, I don't know. But a simple text would've been cool so I don't keep thinking if I said something wrong or not. Literally the last thing he said was that he wished he wouldn't have done a line because he wanted to come pick me up to fuck. I replied that we should just do it anyways who cares. Haven't heard from him since.

[Anonymous]

He may just be waiting until he is free and wants to have sex before he replies again.

[dnc01]

Hopefully that's the case. Other than that it's unlike him to not reply. Maybe he does have a girlfriend who knows. Finger crossed he'll come around again sooner or later lmao

[AlphaGhost]

He was fuck buddy and a buddy is not boyfriend, I think you creeped him by asking about that snap-chat my man thing.

[dnc01]

I saw a post on Instagram about a girl saying he was her man. I asked if he was dating anyone he said no but I never said or brought up the insta post i saw I just casually asked if he was dating. But after that he didn't seemed bothered at all by that question. He would also ask me if I was seeing anyone or when was the last time I had sex with someone.

[Matti_Jr]

I was going to say maybe he got busy with work possibly. He might also be seeing a girl that's territorial.

[dnc01]

Yeah I think he might be. It would've just been cool if he could just be straight up and say that, considering he would always tell me I had to be honest and straight up with him. Oh well!

[Matti_Jr]

It is what it is! Kind of cowardly. I wouldn't be surprised if he hits you up again randomly several months down the road.

[Browneye57]

He found a REAL girlfriend. [shrug]

I've had a few FB's, they don't command much respect. Just another hoe-bag.

[dnc01]

We never tried to be together as boyfriend/girlfriend. Nor did I ever push to be his girlfriend so your comment is irrelevant lol. If being a fuck buddy makes someone a "hoe bag" so be it. There's nothing wrong with wanting to feel good with someone!

[Browneye57]

There is when you do it that way.
We used to call it a 'booty call'. A woman that does this should really get paid for it. Why are you giving it up for free?

[dnc01]

Then I guess he's also a booty call because in the past I've been down the street from his house and have texted him to hook up and he says yes. I don't care if he found a "real girlfriend", good for him. I'm just saying like why not be straight up and just say so

[neoagent1]

I bet he has a girlfriend and he doesn't want to jeopardize it with you sorry to say.

[dnc01]

And that's totally ok if he does! He's just always been the one to say him and I always have to be straight up and honest with one other. I wouldn't be mad if he did tell me that, bummed ya because sex was great but at least I would know the reason to why he won't text back

[neoagent1]

He doesn't want any evidence on his phone that he's contacting you!

[dnc01]

Yeah I guess so! Thanks for your input