Did my fuck buddy have feelings for me?

Question

It might would be wrong of me to call him fuck buddy because we never agreed to that but after dating for quite some time we were heading towards that pattern. He began to only text me late to come over, you get the point. He never said anything about what he wants and what he does not want. In the end we were just having sex, now he would get jealous if I was with another guy and he would ask me if I had slept with anyone else but him all the time. He could ask me if I had gotten a boyfriend because I did not pay attention to him. When I realized that this was turning into some sort of fuck buddy situation I had to end it because I don't want that at all and I like him so I knew this was going to end up bad. He would play with my hair at night, hold me close in the morning, tease me, compliment tiny details on my looks and stare into my eyes. He seemed pretty cool about me ending it but he was cold almost mean towards me when I told him I was catching feelings as I ended it.

Answer 1

Anonymous

Well why didn't you try to go on more dates? To me it sounds like you didn't want to initiate any of the dates so he didn't think you were interested. If you didn't want to be fuck buddies you shouldn't have gave into his late night texts and told him straight that you aren't into that. He was probably upset that you led him on and then told him you liked him when it was too late for him to do anything about it. If you don't want to be a fuck buddy don't act like one.

Opinion Owner

+1 y
You should have communicated better with him.
Asker

+1 y
What do you mean with it was too late? Isn't it never too late?
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Well you said you ended things.. He might try to move on if he thinks you don't want him.
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Asker

+1 y
Your opinion is very much true but I told him I can't sleep with him like this and he said it was fine and that we could be friends but wants to know why, that's when I told him I was catching feelings.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Well how long were you guys dating? Maybe he got offended that you thought of him as a fuck buddy. You don't tell someone you're dating that you're ending it because you're catching feelings. Just ask him if he likes you and wants to continue dating if you still want to go that route.
Asker

+1 y
About six months. We dated until he began to pull these fuck buddy moves. I tried to do something else that meant leaving the bedroom but he did not seem interested only interested in sleeping together. So basically in the end we weren't dating just sleeping and I slept with him because I liked him but then I realized that's all there was. Yeah I should've communicated more and shown more interest, definitely.. I ended it because I didn't want to be his fuck buddy. I told him I was catching feelings and he just says okay that's sweet.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Then maybe it's better to move on unless you want to give him another try. Just make sure you make it clear to him that you want to date, not just fuck. If he doesn't agree then you'll have to move on and find someone who wants more than just sex.

Answer 2

Opinion Owner

You should have communicated better with him.

Answer 3

Asker

What do you mean with it was too late? Isn't it never too late?

Answer 4

Opinion Owner

Well you said you ended things.. He might try to move on if he thinks you don't want him.

Answer 5

Asker

Your opinion is very much true but I told him I can't sleep with him like this and he said it was fine and that we could be friends but wants to know why, that's when I told him I was catching feelings.

Answer 6

Opinion Owner

Well how long were you guys dating? Maybe he got offended that you thought of him as a fuck buddy. You don't tell someone you're dating that you're ending it because you're catching feelings. Just ask him if he likes you and wants to continue dating if you still want to go that route.

Answer 7

Asker

About six months. We dated until he began to pull these fuck buddy moves. I tried to do something else that meant leaving the bedroom but he did not seem interested only interested in sleeping together. So basically in the end we weren't dating just sleeping and I slept with him because I liked him but then I realized that's all there was. Yeah I should've communicated more and shown more interest, definitely.. I ended it because I didn't want to be his fuck buddy. I told him I was catching feelings and he just says okay that's sweet.

Answer 8

Opinion Owner

Then maybe it's better to move on unless you want to give him another try. Just make sure you make it clear to him that you want to date, not just fuck. If he doesn't agree then you'll have to move on and find someone who wants more than just sex.

Answer 9

Anonymous

No but men can be territorial little pricks. They don't want another penis parking in their pussy!
Don't mistake the two

Answer 10

Daynada

Yoda

Ha! Good luck to you!

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