Is this a normal relationship between a man and women who are married to different people?

Me and my guy best friend have been besties for 4 years. We met through a mutual friend who ended up fucking us both over and kinda became friends from a mutual dislike of this girl.

After we got talking we realised we had loads in common and both had the same sense of humour. He was married at a very young age to his first love just like me and we are both extremely loyal to are partners as to why we love gossiping and judging colleagues who cheats at work 🤣.

We're both so sassy and laugh so much together. We work so well together are boss made us work partners. Now we arrange training for are colleagues. a lot of people think at first we're married couple but we just laugh it off. We're very much like Kirsty and Phil (if your British you'll get that reference).

All my friends fancy him and he is good looking and I'm good looking too but we just don't see each other like that all even if we tried even now thinking about it makes me cringe.

We've neither met each others partners either but constantly talk about them to each other. We're like a double act and are constantly bouncing off each other.

I've never really questioned are friendship before until someone a work said are friendship was strange and are partners should be concerned. I got very defensive and even went home and spoke to my husband about it. He said he trusts me and he knows he has nothing to worry about. Just ignores me so much when people say shit like that.

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He says he's my friend because I'm real, I'm a good laugh and I'm not fucked up like everyone else
Is this a normal relationship between a man and women who are married to different people?
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