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My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship dating over a year now and we’ve spoken about moving in together later on - just the two of us no parents.

My mom invited us over for lunch on Christmas Day and she “suggested” and was telling my boyfriend that he could rent out his condo and come live with me and my mom later on and that he won’t hve to work if he did that, but he doesn’t want to and my mom kept pushing the subject and said this to him when I told her not to because living arrangements are between me and my boyfriend.

my boyfriend got very pissed and offended because he doesn’t like the idea and my mom kept pushing the subject…I made it clear to him and reassured him that I spoke to my mom about it that it’s not happening and that we’re going to be living ourselves later on…

was my boyfriend right to be offended about the fact that she told him to rent his condo and not have to work? Or is he being unreasonable?

I thought most all girls move out and live with boyfriend? I’ve seen many girsl living with boyfriend and have baby & get married years after. Some get lucky and married at 18 . Some divorced single mom with 4 kids. I’m 25 live alone as it’s my dream have my own tiny apartment. I grew up with parents fighting screaming daily as my dad used drugs. Back then I wasn’t able to run away but now as an adult I can run away.
mom says I need live with her until I’m married I can’t live alone. I visit her every 2 months & she stressed me out yesterday when I saw her. All she did at the market was force me get married now cuz my brothers wife’s 5 sisters all are married & im not. The youngest is 28 & got proposed last week.
im angry cuz a girl cannot know wen she’ll marry it’s a secret. Girls do not give rings to men and kneel down to propose.
I’m sad as I have super religious freak family 😓 my landlord isn’t like that she lives with her daughter & she’s not married has 4 kids &her mom isn’t angry at all cuz she has 4 kids & not married.
my mom would beat me for having my first baby at 26 & not married. She knows where I live so she would demand landlord to see me at my house to beat me 😥& she would faint of misery I have baby & not married.
my bfs younger sister has many kids and not married either & her mom isn’t angry or disowning her at all but they all live together with her boyfriend too. 🙁😓

Mine is my dad & in a way I feel bad about feeling this way towards him. He’s a good person but out of everyone in my life he’s always annoyed me the most I lose my patience quickly. I think it stems from when I was younger, my mom divorced him after cheating & I feel like he took his frustration out on me. I’m his only child & my parents are good friends, he lives in another state but I get irritated when he calls too much. It’s known that his side of the family is shitty, he’s single (by choice) & my moms family has always pointed out that I’m all he has which is too much pressure to me. Back in HS/college he used to take his frustration out on me even living in another state & one day I cut all contact with him. We didn’t talk for 3 years & since speaking again we’ve been on good terms. I just lose my patience with him so quickly, he asks the same questions over again & it’s like he thinks he looks cute playing clueless every once in a while. My mom said he does that with me bc he doesn’t know what else to talk about with me, what if I was married or had a man? Would I still be expected to make sure I’m at his beckoning call? I don’t know if I can ever move past this 🫣