Ill keep it short,
I was his first everything, He was my first love.. On again off again for 3+ years,
hed always breakit off because he didn't know how to communicate and he had his shame, etc..
He called it off then moved back to his parents (they are super enabling but different story for a different time, and in another state!)
On his last day when he moved his things I went over we talked cried and kissed
He kept making it seem there was a chance
Fast forward he's gone, he randomly would message me then sent me an Christmas gift
I sent it back and called his saying you can't send mixed signals, he cried said he felt bad, admitted another girl was hitting on him and he didn't want to move forward with it (she was underage anyway lol) but then he kept saying he wants to be alone, and not care about anyone,
BOOM last time we talked was I broke contact and cried to him it wasn't pretty, (2 months ago)
Ok your all caught up.
After the first girl that gave him attention, he's been going to the same coffee shop almost DAILY talking with this other girl, (mind you he quiet his job I helped him get and is now just living off his rich dad for a bit..)
she doesn't seem to show that much interest... But she has to be showing something if he goes DAILY (right)
I;ve seen him message her on snap and she doesn't seem to interested, but he's been persistent.
I've also seen him message friends back here in TX saying he wishes he was back here (that was a couple of weeks ago, so I'm guessing he's over that)
ANYWAY
could this be just a distraction so he doesn't have to face the break up?
or could he actually really like her?
IF SO why do it that quick
(Side note we are 25 and 26.. Ya girl can find things out and I realize it sounds crazy, its just not fair he did all this in the relationship just for me to be screwed over and him to seemingly be with any girl that looks his way...)
ANY advice/ or if you've been in this situation helps!
