POLL- Is it true you have to live with family and can’t move out live alone until marriage?

[Sugar100]

I thought most all girls move out and live with boyfriend? I’ve seen many girsl living with boyfriend and have baby & get married years after. Some get lucky and married at 18 . Some divorced single mom with 4 kids. I’m 25 live alone as it’s my dream have my own tiny apartment. I grew up with parents fighting screaming daily as my dad used drugs. Back then I wasn’t able to run away but now as an adult I can run away.
mom says I need live with her until I’m married I can’t live alone. I visit her every 2 months & she stressed me out yesterday when I saw her. All she did at the market was force me get married now cuz my brothers wife’s 5 sisters all are married & im not. The youngest is 28 & got proposed last week.
im angry cuz a girl cannot know wen she’ll marry it’s a secret. Girls do not give rings to men and kneel down to propose.
I’m sad as I have super religious freak family 😓 my landlord isn’t like that she lives with her daughter & she’s not married has 4 kids &her mom isn’t angry at all cuz she has 4 kids & not married.
my mom would beat me for having my first baby at 26 & not married. She knows where I live so she would demand landlord to see me at my house to beat me 😥& she would faint of misery I have baby & not married.
my bfs younger sister has many kids and not married either & her mom isn’t angry or disowning her at all but they all live together with her boyfriend too. 🙁😓

Yes

No

[Guy13]

This is not true in my household growing up.

[Sugar100]

Ur mom never told u that?

[art84]

My brother moved out with his girlfriend and they weren't married. Then with his other girlfriend who later became his wife, they were living with my mom and dad for 6 months. Then they married and lived together for like 5 years.

[melanieeeB]

Not at all. Again I wouldn't listen to your mom and family.

[Sugar100]

I. just met to visit her , and we shopped at the market and I cudnt shop in peace as she was just saying all that shit.

[Sugar100]

My brothers wife’s family r all super religious goody goody. But they aren’t my family they r my brothers family only.

[Stevefiveo]

I'm sorry this is happening to you. But you can definitely find your own place to live. Do what you want. When I was 16, I lived in my car until I had enough money to afford an apartment.

[Sugar100]

I live alone. I visited my mom few days ago which is why she said all these things and I got stressed out while we were shopping at the market. I live alone

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, best thing to live alone and cut out your toxic mom.

[Redstang88]

No. You’re over 18, do whatever you want