Why guys don’t want a girlfriend and don’t want to meet family?

[Anonymous]

I’ll be 26 this year I never had a relationship with a guy. Since I was 13 all guys I liked rejected me. Men are never drooling attracted to me. I would pursue men and be rejected. I wait & my whole life only one guy pursues me. Ik hun many years he’s my best friend & I fell in love with him but he does thing extremely slow like a snail & not clingy. He lives with his mom, wants live with her forever , we meet weekly but often have gaps where we don’t meet, sometimes we’ll meet 2-3x a wk but rarely. He works all day full time. When he gets off of work I begin work. I should be living with a guy already or apartment hunting and have baby but instead I’m alone empty in life. I never meet his friends or family. I have no couple pics. I never have attended a family party, barbecue with a boyfriend. I can’t visit my parents for a restraunt dinner with a boyfriend sitting next to me proud. I go out to the stores & im only girl alone while all women are with guy and baby. I’m settled down in life & depresed to point I’m staring at celing all day. All my family are older and married having perfect life. On dating apps all men want sex only even older guys. I’m not attracted to anyone & all men block me fast on the app don’t understand I’m at work all afternoon all night all morning. I just daydream in my head about meeting parents , having baby & apart of a bfs family, shopping together at the stores. I feel like a loser worthless. I’m alone at the market & no guy cares about me they are all happy with their women and baby. They are worthy and I’m not im trash. Loser shopping alone independent lonely. I don’t want be independent I want a partner next 2 me planning life together daily.

[Tenebrae_mentis]

Most guys just aren't ready to settle down. They don't want the extra responsibility of a family or to feel like they are giving up personal freedoms for someone else. They enjoy their independence.

As for your guy friend, specifically, maybe he's not interested. Or if he is interested, he at the very least seems to lack ambition. He's not in a hurry to move out of mom's house and start a family of his own. He still wants to be cared for, rather than care for someone else.

I know saying this will do nothing to help you, but you're not a loser for not having a family yet. And 26 is not old. You weren't even old enough to rent a car in some places until last year. By all means, keep searching for someone that makes you happy and keep pursuing your dream of having a family, but there's no need to rush. It'll happen when it happens. Be proactive, but patient. It'll work out. It always does.

[Asker]

He’s not my friend he’s my partner. No guy makes me happy years go by and the only guy that stays in my life is him. No one else. All other guys I met aren’t meant to be in my life or mean to me. Only this guy is in my life all these years.

[Asker]

I’m just upset y girls get lucky and the guy they love rush to move out n stsrt family and my guy isn’t like that. Or at least not yet

[Guy13]

The first rule of dating is finding a partner that exemplifies independence and understands the idea of leave and cleave to their spouse. This guy can't leave his Mom and the joint where he was raised. At best, he is looking for a Mommie replacement. He is not relationship building material as Mommie will always know best.

[Anonymous]

Guys are trash. They have nothing to offer and bring zero to the table. Try dating a female and take it slow. Go to a movie together and have popcorn nights. They’re way better in terms of communication and companionship and they can give you what men say they can.

[Asker]

Lol I don’t like women

[sparklefairy]

If they don't want a girlfriend and to meet their family maybe they don't like you very much?

[Asker]

I know him 7 years. He must love me to still be with me all this time.

[Danny_dan92]

You’re going after a momma’s boy. That’s all you need to know

[Asker]

I’m not planning today where I will live with boyfriend, planning tomrow wen we’ll hav baby, next weekend guy is inviting me to meet his mom and sister, then Tuesday meeting to go shop at the grocery store together then Saturday meet again for a date, then go week after to his aunts bday party

[Asker]

I dream to have that life with a boyfriend & I’ll be old and it’ll never come true,

[Iron_Man]

I’m not that way

[Wise4myage]

That's a red flag in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

How long was your longest relationship