I know I can't blame everyone else and that maybe there's something wrong with me, but I'm not a man so I am not sure how they perceive women or 'pick' them for it. I heard that men think that some girls are wife material and some are to mess around with.
Well, I was kind to this guy, seen as outgoing and attractive. I was 19 at the time and I remember he invited me to hang out with his friends when school started back. We all did, and now that I think of it one of his friends used code for they would 'f' me. So we hung out, he never took me to somewhere one on one and i would visit him at the dorms if I was seeing a friend. he tried 4 times to get me to stay over and looked sad or pissed when I left. We made out once and he asked for me to 'suck his dick' and I said no I didn't do that.
Id never had sex or anything. But I have dark skin and I'm 'exotic' or what men wouldn't associate with kind I guess and curvy, and I know because of racism men make out girls to be that way, I hate it. I haven't had a boyfriend, I'm 20 now and after the guy never would hang out with me and still didn't talk to me, treated me worse, and so i told him not to talk to me anymore, it turned out somewhere in the middle he got a girlfriend but she likes him even though he tries to check me out in front of her to make her jealouse. He is upset that I dont want to talk to him and I askedhim to stop speaking to me, not even say hi to me. He still tries to tell me hi a year later and looks upset at me.
I felt bad after everything and gave a guy a bj, and then the next day he asked me too again. And i told him i was tired and maybe another time and i think we moved to fast, and what he was up to and then he asked if i had a friend? and seemed upset at me even though i told him that was my second time doing that?
I will not give a bj again, this is the second time I have done it and men have been disrespectful and mean and Im not sure why Im being treated like this. Im damned either way
Well, I was kind to this guy, seen as outgoing and attractive. I was 19 at the time and I remember he invited me to hang out with his friends when school started back. We all did, and now that I think of it one of his friends used code for they would 'f' me. So we hung out, he never took me to somewhere one on one and i would visit him at the dorms if I was seeing a friend. he tried 4 times to get me to stay over and looked sad or pissed when I left. We made out once and he asked for me to 'suck his dick' and I said no I didn't do that.
Id never had sex or anything. But I have dark skin and I'm 'exotic' or what men wouldn't associate with kind I guess and curvy, and I know because of racism men make out girls to be that way, I hate it. I haven't had a boyfriend, I'm 20 now and after the guy never would hang out with me and still didn't talk to me, treated me worse, and so i told him not to talk to me anymore, it turned out somewhere in the middle he got a girlfriend but she likes him even though he tries to check me out in front of her to make her jealouse. He is upset that I dont want to talk to him and I askedhim to stop speaking to me, not even say hi to me. He still tries to tell me hi a year later and looks upset at me.
I felt bad after everything and gave a guy a bj, and then the next day he asked me too again. And i told him i was tired and maybe another time and i think we moved to fast, and what he was up to and then he asked if i had a friend? and seemed upset at me even though i told him that was my second time doing that?
I will not give a bj again, this is the second time I have done it and men have been disrespectful and mean and Im not sure why Im being treated like this. Im damned either way
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