Is it okay if your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't want to post or announce you are together?

[Anonymous]

My new boyfriend doesn't want to post me or us on social media because he keeps his life "private". I told him I will feel secure if he post us so that girls know he's taken. Also I will post once he does and guys will know im taken. But he keeps giving these excuses saying "I dont want to rush that" I said what you mean we have been together 1 week why can't you just post something so simple. Then he says he hates social media. I told him he's making me feel like shit because im not even asking for much and he doesn't want to. Makes me feel like he's hiding me from some other girl. He also said he never really post his past ex except his last ex that they were together and she kept telling him to post him since they were together 2 years and he never posted until she asked. I just have a bad feeling

[IveGotNoName]

1 week and you want him to post you on social media?

[Asker]

So what? We known each other for like 10 years as friends but we just got together 1 week

[Asker]

So how long should he post me?

[IveGotNoName]

Like at least a couple of months

[driven159]

It's too early 1 week is nothing worry about it after 3 months then you are a thing and if he is like me, I don't put crap on social media either. people and the government know too much about us already

[Danny_dan92]

It’s definitely a red flag

[Ironic_Method]

I keep my affairs private.

[innerman]

I also dnt like posting

[Asker]

Why is that?

[innerman]

What will happen when we break up, will you delete all my pics on social media and post the new guy

[Asker]

But what if you dont break up? Wouldn't you want people to know who you're taken by?

[innerman]

Well, if we dnt… then everyone will receive an invitation to our wedding