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So I've been seeing this new Colombian girl for about 2 weeks and we've been out 3 times. So far everything is good, but suddenly she says she's too down emotionally to go out.

I asked what the problem is and she says she needs to pay for her sister's rehab in Colombia from her back surgery and its $600 a week! She says unless I can help her with that she won't be able to see me anymore because she too distraught emotionally.

My immediate questions were $600 x 4 is $2,400 a month. In Colombia that is a ton of money. I asked how long is this rehab for, and she said she will find out when she visits next month.

We met over dinner to discuss this and she was very direct and specific saying she wanted the $600 weekly every Thursday by midnight and she also doesn't want to hear me complain about it.

Is this an insane request? Should I do more digging, or its obviously a money grab by this girl and maybe there isn't a real rehab going on?

This person (25F) and I (23M) have been talking. She works as a supervisor at my nearest grocery store where I live. During the many times we've seen each other very rarely will she smile or initiate a "hi" (but I'm not saying that doesn't totally exist). Most of the time I go out of my way to chat with her. I know some things about her via the answers she gave me to my questions. She's a Gemini, I'm a Capricorn. But that's pretty much the only thing I know personally about her. She didn't even ask about my last name, what ethnicity I am, or my phone number or social media info. (She knows very few things about me other than the fact that I used to work at Whole Foods and that I am now taking online school.) I recorded a few TikTok videos jokingly talking about how I met this girl and made some jokes about a particular, really cranky guy from a commercial that sells pillows. I told her jokingly that I was his godson, she said, "Oh yeah! I remember you!"

But lately, she's kinda been ghosting me, limiting to just short chit-chats. I don't think she's all that interested. She's likely lost all interest in me. Even today my aunt honked at me as I was JUST going to talk to this girl, but she didn't even notice me or the car honking.

I did ask if she's down for the gym or the movies, she said while she appreciates me asking her out, she cannot go out.

With that said, I gave her some flowers/roses on Mother's Day and she really appreciated it. But she didn't say anything when I hid a Valentine's Day card inside with some chocolates in a bag.

Sometimes I feel like an a—hole for not going out of my way to talk to her today. But few days ago I was exiting the store, she was just glancing at me for a second and didn't even do or say anything. I feel left out, excluded, psychologically burned out because of her betrayal. She acted so f—king nice to me.