I think I have trouble understanding and controlling my emotions. I often don't know why I'm feeling what I am feeling. And in social situations I feel so awkward. Not normal. I notice myself not having anything to say while I notice others almost instantly connect with each other and start chatting and enjoying there time. I just find all the talk trivial and uninteresting all the time and can't understand how they are having such a good time together. Like for example, we met for dinner with a group of about 10 (a rare event for me) and I suffered being there. I had to wonder away with my own thoughts in silence to get me away from the feeling of being disconnected from everyone.
And recently I tried going to a club just as an experiment to see. I enjoyed the music and the vibe but at the same time I just became so down and felt depressed inside, gutted, because still I somehow felt like a misfit. I guess one girl was interested and came dancing very close to me with her hair practically flying in my face left and right more and more but I just felt so awkward, and had no idea how to get along with this stranger. I would have loved to feel her you know, and perhaps started kissing her, but I just did not know exactly what she wanted, and what should I do. Its just totally hopeless for me I feel :( I think I missed an opportunity. :( It was emotionally cruel to stand there helpless and have to just leave away before I saw her leave :(((
I feel so hopeless at socializing.
Any suggestions, any diagnoses to what I might or might not be? :(
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