My boyfriend lives 7 hrs away from me, and when we first met, he already mentioned this girl, "Mila," that he is staying with whenever he visits my city. He said he has been very close to this girl and her family for 8 years. The girl told him 2 years ago that she liked him, but he turned her down and said they could only be good friends and they agreed. I didn’t bother first.
But when we became official, it started bothering me. I never met this girl, but my boyfriend said this girl knows me. My boyfriend always visits me 4–7 days per month at my place. However, this time around, I was shocked that my boyfriend surprised visit me and said he would only stay for 1 day. He said he will be staying with his friend "Mila" the following days because she will be leaving and going to Sweden to study. He said he needs to meet her to ask for the money back that he invested in her business and until she can leave, and her family wants to see him. We fought with my boyfriend. I told him that he could visit them but he has to sleep with me because I am the girlfriend and I am uncomforable of him sleeping in a girl House. My boyfriend got mad at me, saying they are just friends, they do not hook up, and he would break up with me if I stopped him.
A few hours later, I'd called my boyfriend. I heard "Mila" in the background, asking, "Who is that?" My boyfriend said, It's my girlfriend. Mila asked, Hi, when can I meet you? Then I replied, Anytime will do!" And she replied, Your boyfriend is sleeping on our living area "sofa". I ask my boyfriend if he is okay to sleep on a sofa and he can get back to my condo. My boyfriend said I'd think about it. Suddenly, the girl "Mila" said, No way; you need to sleep here in my place to do some stuff." Then, my boyfriend said, He has to go, and maybe we can speak some other time.
I am confused right now about what to feel and what to do. Please advise.
