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This question was taken from a response made by a 39 yr old male.

"Once you hit late 30s and beyond when even the last-minute panicky female leftovers are pairing off the power dynamic shifts 180 degrees and a man who is single and by all signs should be 'partnered away' because he is fit, trim, well-groomed, still has most of his looks, well-spoken, is working (not necessarily killing it but at least has some income), has hobbies, etc etc. He... will be met by women constantly trying to get him to settle with a leftover female: divorcee, handicapped woman, single mom, or some other similar aging female specimen.

A decent older man who maintains an air of carefree bachelorhood will be met with very hateful attitudes from women... ironically for different reasons than the hateful attitudes he experienced from them in his youth. Young, women enjoy it when the second- and third-tier males are 'put in their place' in the male pecking order as they view these guys as their fall-back options or 'plan B' if you will if they can't snag their dream man in time. They want these guys to experience a 'female drought' that would make them amenable to toe the feminine imperative of keeping an amply supply of thirsty back-up plans ready to put in the blood sweat and tears to get a taste of what the top dogs got for free.

But when those mid-level males become eligible for the 'female draft' so to speak (35+ on average) yet refuse to play the game (as it's dictated by female directives)... it pisses women off. Mightily. Especially when they see these older bachelor guys enjoy their hobbies, motorcycles, travels, etc etc, obviously relishing the single life. They'll do everything in their power to 'straighten him out' by saddling him with some aging cow to set an example to other would be mid-level male miscreants."