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See here's the deal when you seek serious committed relationships, you have to comit not only to yourself, but to the other person. That means you have to be willing to accept change in your life, because that is what relationships do... they bring change.

Are you willing to accommodate for change, or do you really just want some one to just show up in your life and fall into place with out missing a step? Because that rarely happens.

The 5 Stages of a Relationship.

1.) The Romance Stage. This is when you have these feelings for the other person and believe they will last for ever.

2.) The Cooling Off Stage. This when you start to come back to earth and consider if there are things that you may of over looked.

3.) Reality Hits Stage. This is when you open your eyes for the first time and are confronted with reality. That if you want to be with this person, what changes are required to be made and are you willing to make them?

4.) Denial Stage. You either start to deny that change is upon you and you refuse to do it. You could refuse to accept that this person is who you thought they would or could be. Their flaws suddenly seem so apparent even when they have been there all a long.

5.) Acceptance Stage. You accept change and fully comit or accept the inevitably of the situation, cut and run.

Now they. say not every relationship goes through all 5 stages, some skip stages and they don't always happen in the same order. Some go through additional stages, but in general no matter what you call them these 5 usually slide into the mix in most case in some way.

A NIGHTCLUB has banned staring without getting "verbal consent" - and hired "safety officers" in pink vests to police revellers.

The venue also asked clubbers not to turn up if their "sole purpose" for their night out is the meet someone to "pick up".

Club 77 in Sydney said managers will call the cops if clubbers stare at others without getting their consent.

And in an Instagram post, the club said "safety officers" in pink vests would enforce the new staring rules.

The fresh policy states that "Club 77 is not a place to come to if your sole purpose is to 'pick up'".

It added: "If you do come in and are approaching multiple people or giving unwanted attention to someone, you are going to attract the attention of our security, who have been instructed to stop this kind of behaviour."

The club said it was happy people to "interact with strangers” but "any engagement MUST begin with verbal consent".

Staring was highlighted as one form of harassment in the club's new safety and harassment policy.

The venue suggested clubbers could be booted out if they simply glanced at another person and they took offence - and the cops could be called.

“If you are, for example, staring at someone from afar – if the attention you are giving someone is unwanted, that is considered harassment," the club said.

“If you’re being harassed by another person or receiving unwanted attention, please seek them out or tell our staff immediately.

"We adopt a policy of ‘always believe the report’ in cases of harassment and feeling unsafe.

"If we receive reports of any behaviour that has made someone feel uncomfortable, the reported individual will be removed from the venue and the police will be called."

Social media users jumped to support the new policy.

One said: "Amazing!!! Positive party culture all the way!"

Another wrote: "Backing this 100 per cent."