Could this be a good reason to stay always single?

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I was chatting with a friend of mine who is in her mid 40`s. She has a grown up son but he lives on his own and she is divorced. She was seeing a guy long time ago but nothing formal or serious, she told me once "too much drama being in a committed or formal relationship" and also she never plan to get married again the reason for her being in a formal relationship was not her goal plus also she alreayd had a grown up kid so no more kids for her either.

Anyway we were chatting about men and relationships and from time to time just for the "eye candy" like everyone does it in this entire planet and all over the world men and woman exchange photos or memes abotu good looking and hot guys or girls, nice bodies, gorgeous faces, etc and you know we all joke about this kind of stuff when we see super attractive men, that as a fantasy or dream we all say things like "What a man the things I will do to you", I mean stuff like that but we onluy say it as part of the game of exchanging memes and jokes about good looking men who we never will meet in real life, but just to look a gorgeous person , men and women, gives you that sensation of fantasizing.

So I sent my friends some photos of good looking handsome hot male celebs who are in their late 30`s mid 40`s or early 50`s, that means mature guys some celebs with beards who lthe beard suits them well... So when I sent my friend this photos and she told me: "Ohh now not even grown up mature guys are worth it because they behave like school boys trying to get younger chicks and hit them off and also younge handsome guys act stuck up and arrogant due to their good looks, but also dating a young dude even if the age is just a number like many people say (and for me age is not just a number it is important cause it does make a difference for me age is something I take into account, even if a 28 years old claims to love me a lot sorry dude Im not dating you for your age) so either way, my friend

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says, men in this current times and age do not worth pursuing for a formal relationships better to stay single and that means no drama, no heartaches so "It is better to be alone than in bad company" Then my friend added, not even hooks ups work, ia dildo is better company she told me joking". There is a saying in my town tthat implies that if a person dates a younger person you will wake up all peed (you know as babies can't control their pee and they pee in the diapers for being babies) .

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Im aware that there are men and women who still believe in serious dating and committment and relationships, marriage, forming a family with all the ups and downs a relationship and a marriage implies and that is good for them because they believe in that, but also in this time many relationships are more disposable in some way so for many people being single is better than to stay with a lousy partner or boyfriend whether is a mature grown up man or a young guy,.
Could this be a good reason to stay always single?
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