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I don't know what they used to want to talk to us when Mom was around but ever since Mom abandoned us, my mom said the family hasn't spoken to us were called. I mean they blamed me for my Mom leaving the family because I was different. After I got diagnosed with autism my mom just freaked out and left two weeks later. She started to be more resentful to me that doesn't even before she was kind of confused why I wasn't talkin like the other kids. My relatives don't really talk to my brother's either. Then one day my dad called the whole family out because they're acting ridiculous I'm not the blame and it was my mom's choice that I left and they should be mad at her not me. I was about 11 years old when that happened well when my dad called them out when we went down there to see them. My mom left when I was eight. It's like every time I try to contact the family they either don't answer or ignore my response and respond to each other sometimes. Just now I told him I was making plans to come see them for the holidays maybe they didn't say anything about it. I didn't say a damn thing they just looked at and didn't respond. I haven't told my brother's or Dad yet because they'll probably say I shouldn't go down there because they don't even talk to us. The only two people that I talked to down there or my grandparents and they also called out the family for their ridiculous Behavior they were on my bedside. I'm going to call my grandparents later today after I get out of my third class and let them know I'm making plans to see them. Well I thought Santa was forever but I didn't realize family can be so toxic and didn't want to talk to you. It seems like my dad said the family cares about us more than my mom's side. I mean my mom's side called each other but they never call us or respond to us and they seem like they're annoyed with us. I barely called them because they won't talk to us. Should I even bother to see them? I'm really hurt that they don't care.

I always knew my crush and I were different. He's the "cool guy" who never smiles and isn't afraid to express himself (even if it's hurtful). I'm the naturally playful and flirty type. My guy friends always tell me that when they first met me they thought I was cool, cold and distant but now they see how clumsy and flirty I really am.
Today, I've been texting with my crush, and immediately we could see how different we are. In just a day, I've learned: he doesn't like parties (I'm all about the life of the party - probably because I'm a musician), doesn't like celebrating his birthday (I always celebrate my birthday with friends) and that he hates summer (Summer is my favorite season).
The only thing I see that we have in common so far is that we're dog people who care about the environment. Is that enough to have in common with a partner? There aren't any mutual activities we do or hobbies.
He's a PHD in Science and I'm an Ethics undergrad, French minor.
I'm multilungual, he just speaks English.
I'm a Pisces, he's a Taurus.
I spend my free time singing, dancing, going out with friends, shopping, reading, or watching Criminal Minds, Roswell and K-Drama. He spends his free time gardening, tutoring and who knows? Probably watching Nat Geo and Ted Talks with his dog and a few cans of beer.
He's totally a beer person. I'm a cocktail person.
Till today, I didn't really have any doubts about pursuing him because I've been so blinded by him, but now I'm slightly worried that even if we end up together it wouldn't work out because we're so different. I mean, what would we even do together other than have sex? 😏😏
I've never pursued someone who's this different from me.
Should I be worried, or not? Do opposites really attract? Have you ever pursued/dated someone who was really different from you?