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OK so obviously this is about me and I am with an accident prone guy.
Me:. I always pay the bills, can you do this one time
Him:. OK. Later he tells me he forgot the password that he made, and we are logged out of all our accounts. We have to call to unlock but he has t. He is too busy and can not for a long time. In other words, something that should take 5 minutes online will now take a couple months.

Me:. Can you not promote your ex?
Him:. If your friends slept with another person or lied or cheated and stole from you, it's OK. But it's not OK if I do it? You are such a hater and I can do whatever I want. I am a grown man. If I want to hang out with her, it's none of your business. This is my boundaries. Goes and hangs out with ex. Later sleep over with ex.

Me:. I washed ten loads of your laundry, can you do your last load
Him:. That's like me doing my dishes and telling you that I won't do yours. He does dishes every night and piles them incorrectly in the dishwasher. I end up doing them every morning. He also said that I complain about doing his laundry (which I did one time and never again). And he says that his friends wives do their laundry and make them breakfast in bed.
Needless to say, I told him I don't trust him and I can't count on him anymore. He has gotten really angry at me and started to ignore me. What can I do?

I just feel beyond vulnerable falling in love with with this man. He's done so many nice things for the kids and I. He bought us a bigger TV. He got my kids bins for their room so they could be more organized. He calls me every night and tells me he misses me. When I got back from a long road trip, he went to bed early with me because he knew I was tired and held me tight. There are more things he's done to show me he cares but I can't go through it all. We are approaching the six month mark and I've met his family and everything. He hasn't said he loves me and I inow I love him. Im afraid I'll slip and say it first but I really want him to say it. I feel really scared and vulnerable right now and I hate it.

If I had to select a score on a 1-10 scale, I would probably say more than 5. While there are some men that will still be jerks, controlling and cheaters no matter how sweet his girlfriend or wife is (in that case, he doesn't deserve anyone), I don't think that's always the case.

There are certain things that can annoy/bore the heck out of a guy IMO:

- Nagging and arguing (even more irritating if it comes with insults)
Really? Do you have to repeat something more than twice to make your point? What exactly is the woman gaining by doing that? More than likely the guy probably wants to walk out the door to get some fresh air (by himself) where he should be spending his spare time with the woman he loves.
- The drama queen
Literally, my mother threw a big tantrum (crying too) because her cell phone had no access for a couple day. Meanwhile my father had this ''not this again'' expression of annoyance in his face. I don't even act like that on my period.

- Neglecting a man's need constantly
While I get that there will be times we're tired from work as well, that doesn't mean there is no time at all for him. At the very least, asking how his day was at work, giving him a cup of tea or hugging him before going to bed is a difference than not even trying at all. Then off course, being on the computer all day long or on your cell talking to your friends nonstoppable while the guy is right there waiting.

At the end of the day, both are responsible for putting their time and effort (off course if the guy is all moody for no reason after I simply asked him how his day was and if he wanted a cup of tea, then that's him being a jerk) to work out their relationship or marriage. I'm just pointing out certain things some women do that might lead to the relationship or marriage following apart.